Three years have passed since you said "I do" and now it’s time to find the perfect gift to commemorate the occasion. We consulted wedding experts Emily Campbell, founder and executive producer of GoBella Design & Planning, and Emily Rumsey, associate commerce editor at The Knot, about how to find a memorable anniversary gift.
“While each year of marriage is linked to specific gifting themes to help guide you toward something meaningful, it’s perfectly okay to go in your own direction or skip the materials if they don’t resonate with you and your spouse,” says Rumsey. “That said, it’s worth exploring the options first — you might be surprised by the variety of gift ideas available.”
To help you shop, we've rounded up picks that will make your spouse fall head over heels (again).
What is the traditional gift for 3 years of marriage?
Leather is the traditional gift to give on your third wedding anniversary. "Leather represents durability, flexibility and resilience — qualities that reflect the evolving strength of a marriage," says Campbell. "Over three years, a couple has built a solid foundation, learning to adapt and grow together."
As a material, leather can also reflect the strength of a couple's relationship. "Like leather, which becomes more distinguished with age, a couple’s bond will continue to deepen as time goes on," adds Rumsey.
Other gifts associated with 3 years of marriage
- Crystal or glass: This represents "clarity, transparency and the honesty that couples develop after three years of marriage," says Rumsey.
- Sunflowers: This is the traditional third anniversary flower, which "symbolizes loyalty, warmth and adoration," explains Campbell.
3-year anniversary gifts under $25
Apple AirTag Leather Keychain Holders
With the look and feel of high-quality leather at a budget-friendly price, this set of two AirTag holders makes a genius gift to give on your wedding anniversary. Tuck one away in your luggage or work bag and give the other to your spouse.
A New Day Leather/Metal Mix Buckle Multi-Loop Belt
Upgrade your spouse’s wardrobe with this timeless brown leather belt fitted with gold hardware. It’s a versatile accessory at an affordable price.
Monogrammed Leather Rocks Glass Cover
You can customize this leather rocks glass cover in so many ways — choose between six different colors, an embossed or foil monogram and three hardware colors. Add your spouse’s initials for a thoughtful gift that will last for years to come.
Mark & Graham Leather Photo Keychain
Keep your loved one close with this leather keychain that can be embossed with your initials and fitted with a small photo. From blush pink to Kelly green, there are seven stylish hues to choose from.
Gallery Leather Brown Bonded Leather Journal
Write down stories and memories from your marriage in this stunning leather journal. It features gold-edged pages, a soft white ribbon bookmark and nearly 200 pages for writing.
Threshold Three-Wick Leather and Embers Candle
Burn this luxe candle while having date night at home or watching a movie. The minimalist design is easy to fall in love with and will look great in any space in your home.
3-year anniversary gifts under $50
Posh Tech Carmen Skinny Leather Apple Watch Band
This chic leather strap will elevate the look of your spouse’s beloved Apple Watch. Choose between multiple colorways to fit their style. “Love this band. It can be worn casual or dressed up! Well made,” one shopper wrote.
Quince Italian Handwoven Leather Small Card Case
This gorgeous woven leather looks like designer versions that cost hundreds of dollars — but it’s under $30. It’s available in three classic colors — black, wine red and cognac — so choose the one that suits your sweetheart’s style.
Homesick Sunflower Fields Candle
According to the brand, this candle features notes of citrus, sunflower, willow bark and sandalwood. It'll evoke feelings of frolicking through the sunflower fields without ever having to leave the comfort of your own home.
Personalized Leather Sunglasses Case
Whether or not you’re celebrating your wedding anniversary somewhere sunny, your spouse will have heart eyes for this personalized leather sunglasses case. It comes in four colorways and can be embossed with your initials for an extra-special touch.
TBCo Picnic Carrier
Take your spouse on a picnic date to celebrate three years of marriage with this high-quality leather picnic carrier. Available in nine colors, the straps make it easy to transport your picnic blanket to a park or beach.
Savannah Bee Company Sunflower and Lemon Whipped Honey Gift Set
Inspired by modern third wedding anniversary gifts featuring sunflower motifs, this honey duo from Savannah Bee Company is a sweet way to say "I love you."
Lauren Ralph Lauren Leather Wrap Hoop Earrings
From the office to date night, the lucky lady in your life will love these leather-wrapped, gold-plated hoop earrings. The neutral tones make this item versatile to boot.
3-year anniversary gifts under $100
Leatherology Square Valet Tray
Keep your keys, jewelry and other trinkets safely stowed with this personalized leather valet tray. Place it near an entryway or on your bedside table for easy access. It’s available in a dozen different leather finishes and can be personalized three ways.
Ragproper Modern Glass Hip Flask
Whether you’re tailgating or going to a backyard barbecue, this leather-wrapped flask not only looks good, but is comfortable to hold. “Super happy with this. Very pretty leather. It was a gift for my husband and he loved it!” one shopper raved.
Vietri Hibiscus Bud Vase
I received this as an engagement gift, but it would be a lovely wedding anniversary present, too. If leather isn't your thing, a lovely glass vase like this one is timeless and fits into any aesthetic.
Leatherology Classic Round Coasters and Holder
Protect surfaces around your home with this set of modern and durable leather coasters. The six-piece set is sold in four stunning neutral colors — black, navy, chocolate brown and cognac. “They’re the perfect for an anniversary gift, especially if you’re pairing it with some nice glassware or a bottle of their favorite liquor,” says Shop TODAY senior editor Jess Bender.
Cuyana Medium Travel Case
I personally love Cuyana for its high-quality, personalized leather goods. This pebbled leather travel case, which comes in seven vibrant colors, can be used to organize cosmetics, tech accessories or other on-the-go essentials.
3-year anniversary gifts worth the splurge
Mejuri Small Jewelry Box
“This jewelry box has been my go-to for years,” says Shop TODAY editorial assistant Erica Marrison. “It’s pretty enough to keep on display at home, but since it’s small I can travel with it, too. I love that it’s lined with anti-tarnish microsuede so I know my precious bracelets, rings and necklaces are safe."
Waterford Heritage Round Ring Holder
This was another thing I received as an engagement present and I can't say enough good things about the timeless design and functionality. It's perfect for holding engagement rings, wedding rings and everything in between!
Pottery Barn Handcrafted Leather Picture Frames
Put your favorite photos on display in this leather-wrapped picture frame, which comes in three colors (white, black and brown) and two sizes (four-by-six or five-by-seven).
Custom Leather Wedding Album
If you never got around to compiling your favorite wedding portraits or photos from your last big trip together, this stunning leather-bound album is the perfect way to do so. You can customize everything from the size and number of pages to the color of the leather for a personalized touch.
Patricia Nash Benvenuto Tote
“This bag is expertly constructed with metal detailing and soft leather on the outside and ample room and a luxe suede lining on the inside,” says Bender. “It would complement the boho vibe that’s hot right now, but also it’s a classic design that could work with practically anything you’re rocking.”
How we chose
The Shop TODAY editors and writers search the internet to find the best products across every category (especially those special occasions). We interview expert sources, comb through customer reviews and even use our own personal experiences to make shopping easier for our readers.
As an editorial team, we independently create content and determine coverage based on research, reporting and what we think TODAY.com readers would like to read about. The goal of our content is to provide a service and inform readers who are on the hunt for the latest products to help make their life better. Items are sold by retailer, not TODAY. Pricing and availability are accurate as of publish time.
Meet the experts
- Emily Rumsey is an editor at The Knot, a wedding planning site and vendor marketplace.
- Emily Campbell is the founder and executive producer of GoBella Design & Planning.
Don’t forget to check out Shop TODAY’s other gift guides to find the perfect present for other milestone anniversaries including one year, 5 years, 10 years and 20 years.
