Just hit 30 years of wedded bliss? Congrats! Being married to your best friend is a true blessing and a 30th wedding anniversary calls for a special celebration.
Not sure what to gift your better half? Every anniversary has a special gift theme associated with it, so we consulted a wedding pro about everything you need to know if you're looking to go the traditional route. And if you happen to be shopping for a happy couple, be sure to keep this list handy!
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What is the traditional 30th anniversary theme?
By now, you're probably well versed on the themes that go along with each wedding anniversary. Being married for 30 years is a pretty big deal, so it's only appropriate that the gift theme is equally luxurious: pearls.
“Traditionally, pearls are a symbol of wealth, purity, wisdom and good fortune. Giving a pearl anniversary gift to your spouse represents your relationship growing bigger and stronger over many decades, similar to how pearls are slowly formed in layers during a years-long process," says Samantha Iacia, an editor at The Knot.
Pearls can get better with age, just like your relationship. "It’s said that the more you enjoy showing off your pearls, the more they shine, which is a beautiful metaphor for 30 years of marriage," she adds.
What are other gifts associated with 30 years of marriage?
Along with pearls, Iacia calls out diamonds and lilies as appropriate gift options for this anniversary.
"Representing endurance and strength, diamonds are an alternative gift for the 30th wedding anniversary. Diamonds are treasured for both their beauty and their durability, which makes them a fitting symbol for the inevitable ups and downs couples go through in three decades of marriage," Iacia says. "For those who prefer flowers, a bouquet of lilies symbolizes devotion and the start of a new chapter."
30th anniversary pearl gifts
Nourison Pearl-Covered Pillow
Time for a décor refresh? This beaded pearl pillow will breathe new life into your living space and remind you of this milestone anniversary every time you lay eyes on it.
Pearl Champagne Bottle
A champagne bottle that's coated in pearls? It doesn't get much better than that. You can choose from two sizes (mini and regular) and raise a glass to 30 years of happiness with your best friend.
Pottery Barn Mother-of-Pearl Frames
Available in three sizes, this mother-of-pearl frame offers a fresh take on the theme. The iridescent patchwork design is a conversation starter in and of itself, but the photo you put inside will be the true prize.
30th anniversary gifts for her
Beautiful by Lawrence Zarian Hidden Placket Poplin Shirt
By now, you've been together long enough to know what both of you really want for a gift. If you're shopping for a spouse who loves to dress to impress, this blouse with a faux pearl trim is a unique way to honor this anniversary's theme. The solid black really makes the pearls pop but it's also available in solid white and a blue striped print.
Massage Envy Gift Card
Spending time with your better half is a true joy, but everyone needs a little bit of “me time” every once in a while. A massage gift card is an ideal way to treat your sweetheart to some rest and relaxation in honor of your big day.
1-800-Flowers Vibrant Summer Lily Bouquet
No matter what season your anniversary falls in, it’ll always feel like summer with this sunny bouquet that's filled with a mix of orange, pink and white Asiatic lilies. You can choose from multiple vases and can even add a seashell trinket dish if you’re feeling inspired.
30th anniversary gifts for him
Jos. A. Bank Mother-of-Pearl Tie Bar
Not everyone is into actual pearls. If you're shopping for a guy who prefers something a bit more subtle, this mother-of-pearl tie bar will help you stay on theme while giving him the dose of subtlety he craves.
American Kitchen Nonstick Skillet
Available in multiple sizes, this nonstick skillet features a magnetic stainless exterior that works on any cooking surface, according to the brand, and is made with two layers of professional-grade stainless steel that ensure the pan heats evenly. You can also opt for versions with or without a lid.
BedHead PJs Men’s Stretch Jersey PJ Set
Slipping into a pair of soft pajamas after a long, hard day can feel like pure bliss. These are made of 100% cotton and come with a long sleeve top and pull-on joggers. If you’re lucky, your hubby might even let you borrow them.
30th anniversary jewelry gifts
Loft Mother-of-Pearl Pendant Necklace
You don’t have to spend a lot of money to make your spouse smile. This mother-of-pearl pendant necklace is eye-catching with its three charms in varying shapes and has beads throughout the chain for some added visual appeal.
Men's Wearhouse Pronto Uomo Cufflinks
One way to keep the romance alive after 30 years of wedded bliss? Scheduling fancy date nights! Send a subtle hint to your main squeeze with these pearl cufflinks that stand out from the crowd.
Ann Taylor Pearlized Triple Row Drop Earrings
What’s better than one row of pearls? Three! These triple row drop earrings are equal parts playful and pretty and would look oh-so-lovely on your love’s earlobes.
Personalized 30th anniversary gifts
Personalized Luggage Tags
Ready to jet off on a romantic anniversary getaway? Add a special touch to your luggage with this tag that can be customized with your first or last name. It's available in five colors, so you're bound to find one that they'll adore.
Mariposa String of Pearls Personalized Jewelry Monogram Tray
Personalization and pearls? Talk about a twofer! This jewelry tray can be customized with two or three initials and makes an ideal resting place for your wedding rings.
Monopoly Personalized Vintage Bookshelf Edition Board Game
Your next game night will be extra special with this personalized book cover that houses a game of Monopoly. It can be customized with two lines of text like your last name and a phrase that means something to you both.
Canvas Champ Personalized 3D Photo Crystal
Available in an array of sizes and shapes (including a diamond and a heart), this 3D crystal can be customized with a photo that'll be seen from multiple angles. You can take it to the next level by adding a base and an LED light.
Bond Touch Bond Heart Necklace
There's nothing more intimate than cuddling up in bed and listening to your beloved's heartbeat. This innovative necklace lets you record and feel their heartbeat forever. All you have to do is install the Bond Touch app, then record a heartbeat. Once complete, just hold the necklace and you’ll hear their heartbeat on command! It doesn't get more comforting than that.
30th anniversary food gifts
GourmetGiftBaskets Gourmet Chocolate-Dipped Oreo Cookies
Sweets for your sweet! You can never go wrong with chocolate-covered Oreos, but this set takes the classic treat to a new level. All 12 Oreos are dipped in either white, milk or dark Belgian chocolate and decorated with candies, nuts and drizzle. Sounds delicious to us!
Eastern Standard Provisions Ultra “Keep Calm and Pretzel On” Gift Box
Whether you plan to throw a party for your anniversary or simply want some alone time with your sweetheart, this delicious gift box can help you toast to 30 years with something tasty. It comes with a variety of pretzels (sticks, bites and full-sized pretzels) and some toppings like mustard, sugar and salt. Yum!
Fleur De Chocolate Belgian Chocolate Roses
Edible roses? Yes please! These beautiful, individually-wrapped roses are made with white and milk Belgian chocolate and neatly arranged in a reusable hatbox. You can choose from 21, 40 or 64 roses depending on how much of a sweet tooth you both have.
Omaha Steaks Butcher’s Cut Filet Mignons
A 30th wedding anniversary is cause for celebration and these sumptuous filet mignons are certainly the crème de la crème. If you'd prefer to stay in and have a romantic dinner at home, you can order a few and prepare them with your favorite sides.
30th anniversary gifts you both can enjoy
Bath & Body Works First Sight Three-Wick Candle
Ready to set the mood for a relaxing date night at home? This candle has fragrance notes of Italian bergamot, woods and sugared musk. It even bears a romantic name — First Sight.
Shutterfly Better Together Keepsake Puzzle
Life can be puzzling at times, but through it all you’ve had each other. If you’re looking for a creative activity to do together in honor of your 30th anniversary, this special puzzle can be personalized with your favorite photo of you and your spouse.
Hallmark Gather Happy Moments Photo Album
The best gifts come from the heart and this refillable photo album gives you the opportunity to create something special for each other. It comes with eight magnetic photo pages and has room for more (refill pages are sold separately) so you can pack in all your favorite photos from the past three decades together.
30th anniversary splurge gifts
Kendra Scott Brooklyn Pearl 18K Gold Vermeil Delicate Chain Bracelet
A milestone anniversary is the perfect time to splurge a little and buy your sweetheart something beautiful. This beaded bracelet is adorned with freshwater pearls and 18K gold vermeil that would look quite dainty on her wrist.
Sleep Number True Temp Sheet Set
This one’s for any couple who just can’t seem to agree about the temperature in their bedroom. The True Temp sheets work hard to absorb extra heat when you need to cool down, then send it back to you to warm you up, according to the brand.
The set comes with one oversized flat sheet, one fitted sheet and two pillowcases. It's offered in seven sizes and six colors.
Black+Decker Vera Pizza Oven
Did someone say pizza party?! This outdoor oven can help you whip up professional pizzas in a flash with its rotating pizza stone and built-in thermometer. You can even use it to grill meat and vegetables in a cast iron skillet or bake bread!
Meet the expert
- Samantha Iacia is an editor at The Knot, a wedding planning site and vendor marketplace. She has previously spoken to Shop TODAY about other wedding milestones including anniversaries from 5-40 years.
Don’t forget to check out Shop TODAY’s other gift guides for every anniversary milestone including one year, five years, 10 years, 15 years, 20 years, 25 years, and 40 years.
