First comes the RSVP, then comes the dress. With wedding season on the horizon and the arrival of spring, many guests are starting to plan their outfits and gifts for the bride. Whether you've already bought your dress or need to elevate it with a few extra touches, there are some do's and don'ts to master the best-dressed guest list.
A 2019 study from WeddingWire found that half of the guests attending a wedding purchase a new outfit and spend an average of $155. Since spring symbolizes optimism, fresh beginnings and renewals, spending a bit more on a wedding attire is normal.
Fashion psychologist Jennifer Heinen says, "Weddings during this vibrant season beautifully reflect these themes, offering guests a wonderful opportunity to refresh their style and mindset. According to our fashion psychology research, intentionally choosing our outfits — through colors, fabrics and patterns — can significantly enhance mood, confidence and overall emotional well-being (Adam & Galinsky, 2012)."
But what's appropriate to wear at a wedding can depend on the dress code, wedding location and overall theme. We also polled our Shop TODAY editors for their favorite brands, styles and what's currently waiting to be donned come the wedding day.
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Expert-approved wedding guest dresses
Drape effortlessly: Ivy City Tessie Dress
- Very comfortable
- Flattering
- Will have to adjust for petite
Sizes: 00-34 | Colors: 8 | Material: 100% polyester
Bridal stylist Alysia Cole recommends dresses from Ivy City Co. if you're a curvy girl. This style can be worn by bridesmaids or guests alike, and it comes in different colors to match the theme of different wedding parties. The design exudes a rich texture and elegance, making it appropriate for formal evenings.
Like a muse: Eloquii Halter Neck Satin Maxi Dress
- It's lightweight
- Very flattering
- Not stretchy
Sizes: 14-32 | Colors: 2 | Material: 100% polyester
Per Silver's recommendation, opt for a lightweight or silk dress. She also recommends embracing soft pastels, floral prints and brighter shades. This design features a halter neckline that drapes naturally and moves with ease. It also has an elastic back for easy zipping.
Floral power: Kiyonna Vienna Maxi Dress
- Well-made
- Very comfortable
- Not ideal for petite
Sizes: 10-32 | Colors: 6 | Material: 95% polyester, 5% spandex
Cole also recommends this brand for its size availability and numerous options. If you're heading to a warmer destination, this dress will keep you cool and elegant throughout the evening. It features a flattering silhouette with a flowy A-line skirt that drapes well.
Master of ceremonies: City Chic Paloma Maxi Dress
- Fully lined
- Soft material
- Limited colors
Sizes: 12-24 | Colors: 2 | Material: 100% polyester
“For a spring wedding, you’ll want to consider light colors and pastel shades like pink, yellow or green for dresses, preferably at midi or maxi lengths," says Silver. This one from City Chic has an asymmetrical silhouette with a cap-inspired neckline that oozes luxury and class.
Feminine code: City Chic Entwine Maxi Dress
- Flattering
- Has thin straps
- Wear with a push up bra
Sizes: 12-24 | Colors: 4 | Material: 97% polyester, 3% elastane
If you want to show off your shoulders with added support, this dress is for you. It features thin straps that are hardly noticeable and will offer comfort while on the dance floor. It also features a side panel made from a sheer material that will allow you to be flexible when walking from the church to the venue.
Editor-approved wedding guest dresses
Smooth elements: White Fox Everybody Loves It Maxi Dress
- Flattering
- Feels comfortable
- A bit short on the sides
Sizes: XXS-XL | Colors: 1 | Material: 76% polyester, 19% viscose, 5% spandex
I [Espinal] like this dress for a more casual wedding since it is bright and flowy. It features a beautiful one-shoulder neckline and asymmetrical silhouette that pairs well with high heels or knee-high boots.
"A more casual, rustic wedding might allow for more relaxed attire like a sundress in lighter colors," shares Polden.
Soft vibes: Thats So Fetch Renly Strapless Maxi Dress
- Flattering
- Feels lightweight
- Needs proper underwear
Sizes: 0-14 | Colors: 2 | Material: 100% polyester
I [Espinal] just received this dress and fell immediately in love. It's elegant, flattering and curve-hugging. Whether you're planning to attend a garden-style wedding or a small soiree, this dress fits the spring theme.
Always put-together: Lulus Impressive Edge Strapless Midi Dress
- Has support
- Stretchy
- Fitted
Sizes: XXS-XXL | Colors: 2 | Material: 60% rayon, 35% nylon, 5% spandex
Color block is a safe option if you want to wear a bit of white. I [Espinal] own this dress and it can be dressed up or down, depending on the environment. I am saving it for a semi-casual occasion such as a restaurant venue or an afternoon wedding. The dress also has non-slip strips at the top so it doesn't fall.
Color of the year: 12th Tribe Salta Mocha Ombre Mesh Long Sleeve Maxi Dress
- Very flattering
- Lined
- Requires boob tape
Sizes: XS-XL | Colors: 1 | Material: 95% polyester, 5% spandex
Since mocha mousse is the color of the year, I [Espinal] chose this one as my spring collection for spring/summer events. I love the material, it feels comfortable and has a flattering fit. Plus, the ombre effect adds a minimal luxury effect to the attire.
Flatter me: Birdy Grey Alex Convertible Dress
- Very flattering
- Affordable
- Made-to-order only
Sizes: XS-3X | Colors: 64 | Material: 100% polyester
Editor Julie Ricevuto loves this dress, "which is super flattering and affordable, always an added benefit!" Another Shop TODAY editor also loves this brand for its affordable price point. With more than 60 colors to choose from, brides and guests alike can choose their pick for fall or spring weddings.
Classic RSVP: Showpo Beckett Midi Dress
- Flattering
- Has pockets
- Straps may fit loosely
Sizes: 2-16 | Colors: 3 | Material: 97% polyester, 3% spandex
While pastels are the preferable choice for spring wedding attire, Polden says you can choose black if the wedding has a formal evening theme. Editor Amanda Fama is wearing this drop-waist dress which features pockets and an A-line skirt.
"This dress is designed with a drop-V waist (which I love), and the skirt drapes perfectly; I can see this being a go-to for weddings and formal events. It's super comfortable, but I will note that the straps were a bit loose for me. I plan on taking them up a bit for the next time I wear this dress so I feel more comfortable and supported," says Fama.
Chic silhouette: Abercrombie & Fitch Emerson Straples Slim Maxi Dress
- Comfortable
- True to size
- Wrinkles easily
Sizes: XXS-XL | Colors: 3 | Material: 56% polyester, 44% viscose
Associate partnerships editor Lauren Witonsky owns this dress and has worn it to bachelorette parties and bridal shower gifts. "It’s made from the prettiest satin material that holds up surprisingly well after a night of dancing (no snags or stains like you might get from silk, though it does need to be steamed again)," shares Witonsky.
Also, you can get the dress in different lengths such as petite, regular and tall. "I found that the regular length worked perfectly well for being 5’8” and wearing two-inch heels," adds Witonsky.
Front statement: Petal & Pup Betina Bow Front Maxi Dress
- Comfortable dress
- Multiple colors available
- Not ideal for big busts
Sizes: XS-XL | Colors: 5 | Material: 100% polyester
Associate editor Allie Wise owns this dress and says, "I received a sample of this dress in blue at a Petal & Pup event last year and instantly fell in love. It is extremely comfortable while exuding class and elegance. I am eyeing the multi-floral print iteration for spring since it would make the perfect statement at an outdoor wedding!"
For versatility: Kennedy Blue Alexis
- Multiple colors
- Versatile
- Takes time to deliver
Sizes: 00-32 | Colors: 68 | Material: TK
"I own this dress in the rosewood hue. I originally got it as a bridesmaid’s dress but then loved it so much I wore it to another wedding the same year!" says social video producer Anita Chomenko. While it takes a while for an order to arrive, Chomenko loves the size inclusivity and many color offerings.
Pleated, please: Abercrombie & Fitch Giselle Drop-Waist Maxi Dress
- Form-fitting
- Flattering silhouette
- Can be hard to zip up
Sizes: XXS-XXL | Colors: 6 | Material: 100% polyester
When I [Espinal] received this dress, the bright yellow mesmerized me. It features a drop-waist silhouette with a pleated skirt and form-fitting top that accentuate the body. It also has enough stretch to zip up with ease and added straps in case you need more support.
Floral fusion: Reformation Frankie Silk Dress
- Elegant silhouette
- Feels lightweight
- Dry clean only
Sizes: 0-12 | Colors: 4 | Material: 100% silk
Senior editor Francesca Cocchi Zabloudil owns this dress in a different color and says it's one of her favorites for formal events. This dress is designed to be fitted and showcases thin straps that create the illusion of a strapless dress.
Maximum elegance: Reformation Casette Silk Dress
- Feels lightweight
- Super soft
- Needs to be steamed
Sizes: 0-12 | Colors: 6 | Material: 100% silk
Photo editor Kara Birbaum owns a similar version of this dress and says it's super comfortable. "I wore it for like 10 weddings last year," quips Birbaum. This new version features side ruching and an open back, with the same lightweight silk material.
Accessories for wedding guests
When it comes to accessorizing, it is important to consider the weather, venue and dress code. Heinen recommends thoughtful accessories and practical footwear for a spring wedding. "Delicate jewelry, like minimalist necklaces or floral-inspired earrings, complement your look and add refined personal charm without overpowering."
Mane details: RPZL The Sophia Pin
- Great for adornment
- Easy to pin
- Ideal to pin with ties
I [Espinal] own a few pins from this brand and I love how they elevate my overall hairstyle. They are small and easy to pin if you have a high ponytail, a braid or a more elevated bun.
Convertible pair: Pavoi 14K Gold Plated Hoop Earrings
- Gold, silver and mixed tones
- Bottom link is removable
- Hypoallergenic and lightweight
- Post may bend easily
Associate editor Audrey Ekman recently tested these earrings and says they give her ears some reprieve. With an affordable price point and versatile design, these convertible earrings are a great complement for any wedding attire.
A hint of surprise: The Dirty Chic Moonlight Pearl Necklace
- Elegant
- Easy to clip
- Don't wet accessory
I [Espinal] recently received this gift from the brand and love how it complements my outfits. It features two chains with unique pearl details that look more unique than other pearl-inspired jewelry. I wear it with tops or strapless dresses, and it instantly upgrades my outfit.
Accents on point: Lele Sadoughi Pearl Embellished Antoinette Bow Barrette
- Accentuates the hair
- Easy to pin
- Pearls are delicate
Lele Sadoughi is a great brand for glamorous hair accessories, especially if you need to zhuzh up an outfit. This oversized bow features faux pearls and a gold logo detail at the bottom.
Glammed wrist: Rocksbox Kate Tennis Bracelet
- Elegant
- Clips well
- Hard to attach with one hand
Rocksbox is my go-to when I [Espinal] want classy and chic bracelets. This one features 18-karat gold plating and a round of sparkle to complement any attire.
Feel elevated: Vince Camuto Penelope Sandal
- Supportive
- Different colors
- Strap can dig in a bit
Witonsky owns these heels for special occasions and says, "Nothing makes me feel more confident than a new pair of heels, and I've been loving this flattering pair from Vince Camuto. They come in three neutral colors to match with anything and are surprisingly comfortable. Plus, the rubber sole provides some extra grip, which is helpful for dancing all night!"
Eye-catching: Capucine De Wulf
- Elegant
- Not heavy
- Higher price point
This is one of my favorite sets of earrings for its subtle elegance yet glamorous impact. It features a multi-colored and iridescent material called abalone that looks ultra luxurious.
Make it gold: Ramy Brook Angely Drop Hoop Earrings
- Very elegant
- Can be heavy
- Costly
Elevate your hoop game with these earrings from Ramy Brook. They are a modern take on the classic hoop with a gold-toned setting, and they are also hypoallergenic. They are my go-to whenever I want to make a statement.
What to wear to a spring wedding
According to Heinen, spring weddings represent a new chapter filled with positivity and joy. “To align with this feeling, opt for lighter, breathable fabrics such as chiffon, silk, linen or satin. Soft silhouettes and romantic details such as floral prints, pastel colors, and delicate patterns, perfectly capture the essence of spring. Research shows that these fashion choices evoke emotional ease, comfort and openness, making them ideal for celebrating new beginnings.”
Additionally, you want to consider the dress code on the invitation. “Spring weddings tend to lean toward semi-formal or cocktail attire. For men, a light suit (like pastel or navy) or dress pants with a button-up shirt works. For women, a knee-length or midi dress or a chic jumpsuit can be a great option,” shares fashion stylist and founder of Agency Eight, Lizzy Polden.
Since spring brings unpredictable weather, you want to think about layers, too. “Incorporate a light cardigan, blazer or shawl in an accenting color to help layer if the weather is still crisp,” adds Kleinfeld director of merchandising Dorothy Silver.
Spring 2025 wedding guest outfit trends
According to Cole, this spring we’re expecting dresses that lean into ultra-feminine details such as floral prints, bows, ruffles and 3-D rosettes. “We’re also seeing more textured dresses with pleated skirts and colorful jacquards, having risen in popularity.”
“Floral patterns are also a good choice. Opt for lightweight fabrics like linen and chiffon for comfort during the spring season. Other spring styles may include wrap dresses, jumpsuits and two pieces,” says Silver. I [Espinal] usually opt for rental dresses and accessories, especially when the event is very formal. I like to rent from Nuuly, Bag Borrow or Steal, and Elysewalker Borrow whenever I need something more elevated, bespoke and unique.
“Finish the look with accessories such as a chic clutch, comfortable heels, and jewelry. Keep in mind that accessories can help you restyle a dress or separates so you can wear them to different weddings. Make the look unique each time with how you layer it with other pieces, how you accessorize with delicate or statement jewelry, pair it with heels or a chic bootie, etc.,” adds Silver.
Frequently asked questions
According to Cole, the best thing you can do is to follow the dress code. "This can get complicated with more couples choosing to create their own dress codes like “tropical cocktail” or “outshine the bride” but just do your best! If there are any requests to dress in or avoid certain colors, be sure to follow those. If no colors are specified on the invite, avoid wearing any white just in case."
Since you will be featured in the wedding photos and probably video, Silver suggests always setting the tone and respecting the code. "The exception is if the couple requests white/cream in the dress code. Additionally, keep it elevated and wearable. For example, avoid overly flashy or revealing outfits, casual attire like jeans, sweatshirts or sneakers, and uncomfortable shoes that make it hard to enjoy the event," adds Silver.
"Colors play a critical role in setting the emotional tone of any event, especially weddings. Soft pastels — like powder pink, icy blue and lilac — are calming, romantic and uplifting, which perfectly suits the atmosphere of a wedding," shares Heinen.
On the other hand, earth tones and botanical hues can deepen our connection to nature, says Heinen. "These hues enhance feelings of balance and tranquility. Brighter shades, such as classic reds or marigold, evoke warmth, energy and festive vibes, making them suitable for guests who wish to add an expressive touch."
A general rule of thumb is to complement the season and balance style with comfort, "ensuring you look elegant without overshadowing the couple," says Silver.
"Elegant statement earrings help elevate a wedding guest look and are great pieces you can continue to wear outside of wedding season. Playful clutches are also having a moment and a fun way to add a pop of color and personality to your look. Springtime weddings often have outdoor ceremonies, so making sure you can walk on grass or brick is key when choosing a shoe. A low block heel is always a safe bet, I also love a pointed toe flat for an elegant but still comfortable feel," shares Cole.
How we chose
We consulted fashion experts and a fashion psychologist for the best brands, tips and style rules for wedding attire. Also, we asked our Shop TODAY editors for their favorite dresses, considering affordability, size availability and current trends.
Meet the experts
- Dorothy Silver is the director of merchandising at Kleinfeld.
- Jennifer Heinen is a fashion psychologist and styling consultant.
- Lizzy Polden is a fashion stylist with two decades of fashion experience and the founder of Agency Eight.
- Alysia Cole is a professional bridal stylist who focuses on gender and size-inclusivity.
