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'The Golden Bachelor' Gerry and Theresa are married! Here's what happened during their wedding

A month after getting engaged on TV, Gerry Turner and Theresa Nist get married on TV.
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Gerry Turner is "The Golden Bachelor" no longer.

The lead of the first-ever "Golden Bachelor" franchise married his winner, Theresa Nist, in a televised wedding special. "The Golden Wedding" aired Jan. 4, just a month after the series finale.

Gerry, a 72-year-old from Indiana, connected with Theresa, a 70-year-old from New Jersey, early on in the season, bonding over things like a harrowing highway drive and their shared experiences with loss. Both Gerry and Theresa married their high school sweethearts, who died following illnesses.


THERESA NIST, GERRY TURNER, SUSAN NOLES
Gerry Turner and Theresa Nist hold hands at their wedding. Eric McCandless / Disney

Their wedding included members of their family, including children and grandchildren, and some of the "Golden Bachelor" cast. Gerry's other frontrunner, Leslie Fhima, was seen walking the red carpet at the event, among other "Golden Bachelor" contestants. Fan-favorite Susan Noles officiated the wedding — and there wasn't a dry eye in the house.

Here's what else to know about Gerry and Theresa, and a recap of everything that happened during the two-hour wedding special.

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135d ago / 3:10 AM UTC

Gerry and Thersea 'didn't stop believing' in their first dance

The special ended with a singalong to "Don't Stop Believin''" by Journey, as performed by the wedding band.

"Gerry, you didn't stop believing," the singer said right before the special ended.

135d ago / 3:08 AM UTC

Gerry and Theresa make 'Bachelor' history

Now that the "Golden Bachelor" couple has officially said "I do," they have made history by becoming the first-ever couple to get married through the "Golden Bachelor" series. Here's to (hopefully) many more!

135d ago / 3:08 AM UTC

Charity Lawson and Dotun Olubeko reveal when they're getting married

Another bow from cupid's arrow has struck at Theresa and Gerry's nuptials! Happy news comes from Charity Lawson and her fiancé Dotun Olubeko, whom she met on her season of "The Bachelorette," as they announce that their wedding will be taking place in fall 2025.

135d ago / 2:50 AM UTC

Theresa's comment about where she'll be in 10 years gets attention

After they exchanged vows, Susan prompted Gerry and Theresa to stare into each others' eyes and let the moment sink in.

She also asked them to imagine where they see themselves in ten years. Theresa seemed to whisper, "Dead." Susan replied, "I could have said 20 years."

The moment appeared to be light-hearted, but fans definitely caught it.

135d ago / 2:48 AM UTC

Mr. and Mrs. Golden Bachelor are married!

After a pause, Susan pronounced the couple husband and wife. Then they finally kissed.

"Let's hear it for Mr. and Mrs. Turner," Susan shouted before they walked down the aisle.

135d ago / 2:45 AM UTC

Theresa's grandson has a moment as the ring bearer

In an adorable moment, Theresa's grandson Henry brought up the rings, and they fumbled to pick them up.

135d ago / 2:42 AM UTC

Gerry and Theresa exchange vows

Theresa went first. "I went on the 'Golden Bachelor' hoping to find the man of my dreams and I never expected it to happen," she said.

But then she said she felt like she had "known him for all (her) life."

"I love your heart and your soul. Your smiles and your laughter. We have so much fun together. We laugh until we cry. We face many challenges," she said.

Gerry called Theresa the woman he "can't live without."

"You're a strong and independent woman. Your strength gives me joy ... I know I found a full partner to share all the life experiences life throws at us," he said.

He went on to make more promises to her.

"You are the love that came silently and without warning. You are authentic. Theresa, you have my heart and I have yours," he said, finishing his vows.

135d ago / 2:34 AM UTC

Gerry's and Theresa's daughters give speeches

Gerry's and Theresa's daughters, all wearing bridesmaids dresses, gave heartfelt speeches praising their parents' personalities and recognizing their connection.

"You've taught so many people lessons on positivity and that it's not too late to find love," Angie said. She also told Theresa: "You're the most charming, genuine, caring, genuine woman. We see the way you look at our dad and the way you love him."

Theresa's daughter Jen asked Gerry to take care of her "best friend since birth" and said she "couldn't be happier" for them.

135d ago / 2:31 AM UTC

Theresa walks down the aisle, and the tears begin during Susan's speech

Theresa's son walked her down the aisle. When she stood across Gerry, wearing a form-fitting mermaid gown, the tears began. Gerry cried. Susan cried. Theresa cried.

"I can't even tell you how excited I am," Susan said. "For those of you who don't know me, I just don't know why. I'm Susan. The shy, quiet one on the show."

Susan later recalled how she and Gerry met: "I stepped out of the limo and said, 'Gerry, I'm going to marry you.' Turns out I was right."

She continued to cry while rhapsodizing about their relationship, saying they found each other amid the 30,000 applicants for the show out of "fate."

"You all have given us so much hope," she said of their relationship.

135d ago / 2:23 AM UTC

The ceremony begins, with Gerry and Theresa's family as stars

As the procession began, Susan made her signature chest bump movement.

Theresa's grandsons walked down the aisle; one was a ring bearer. Gerry's granddaughters walked down the aisle in matching pink dresses.

Gerry's daughters and Theresa's daughter and daughter-in-law were bridesmaids.

Watching the processional, Gerry got teary-eyed.

135d ago / 2:05 AM UTC

Theresa's Bachelorette party got spicy

Ellen Goltzer, Sandra Mason, Faith Martin and Susan Noles, all part of the "Golden Bachelor" cast, went to Theresa's Bachelorette party. Faith was a frontrunner but gave her full support in a toast.

For the party, Theresa planned a photoshoot — a boudoir photoshoot. The ladies all responded differently.

"I'm emotionally aroused," Sandra said after hearing the plans. She said, during the photoshoot, she was "posing for Denzel."

Ellen was less enthusiastic at first. "I'm not modest at all but I'm feeling real weird," she said. By the end, though, she felt "very good" and "sexy."

"I've never done a boudoir shoot but I've been sexy before," Susan said.

Theresa wanted everyone to feel "empowered" and "beautiful."

"I think every woman, at any age, should feel sexy and comfortable in their own skin," she said.

Later on in the day, Susan hired strippers.

"They made me touch the muscles. Oh, gosh," Theresa said.

135d ago / 1:53 AM UTC

A proposal! A proposal! Brayden Bowers proposes to Christina Mandrell

Bachelor Nation continues to couple. Brayden Bowers and Christina Mandrell got engaged live on the "Golden Wedding" red carpet. The couple met after Brayden's time on "Bachelor in Paradise, and Christina said she messaged Brayden.

The moment came after host Jesse Palmer asked them about their future plans. Brayden revealed he was moved to Tennessee, then took the mic to ask one more question.

"For the first time in my life I feel like I can be myself," Brayden told Christina. "I have no doubts I want to spend the rest of my life with you."

Christina seemed excited and overwhelmed. Then, said she finally understood why they had to get their nails done.

Jesse then clarified that Brayden got Gerry and Theresa's blessing.

People online were shocked by the news. Some weren't thrilled by what they saw as a faux pas: Proposing at someone else's wedding.


Others took a more laissez faire approach to the wedding. "Why is everyone so riled up with the proposal at the wedding. All of Gerry’s exes are in attendance at the weddings. ANYTHING GOES PEOPLE," an X user wrote.

135d ago / 1:49 AM UTC

Theresa goes wedding dress shopping with her family and the 'Golden Bachelor' girls

Theresa went dress shopping with her daughter Jen Woolston, Gerry's daughters Angie Warner and Jenny Young, her daughter-in-law Amanda Nist and cast members Kathy Swarts and Susan Noles. (She said it was “incredible” to have Kathy and Susan there.)

The group was joined by designers Mark Badgley and James Mischka, who comprise the label Badgley Mischka.

Theresa cried when she found "the one," and had a moment with her daughter. Angie Warner, Gerry's daughter, was also in tears.

135d ago / 1:43 AM UTC

Gerry meets with Neil Lane to pick out a wedding band

Gerry met with Neil Lane in "Bachelor" tradition to get a wedding band. Typically, contestants meet with Lane to buy an engagement ring; in this case, Gerry was buying wedding bands for both himself and Theresa.

"It's saying to your partner that no matter what, I'm going to stand by you," Gerry said.

He chose "a sparkler" for Theresa, in Neil's words. Neil presented Gerry with a "magical ring" made from a meteorite for his own ring.

"It's a symbol of the rest of our lives ... eternity," Gerry said.

135d ago / 1:37 AM UTC

More of the 'Golden Bachelor' cast arrives

Joan Vassos left "The Golden Bachelor" early because of her daughter's pregnancy. She came to Gerry and Theresa's wedding to support what she calls a "love story."

Edith Aguirre and April Kirkwood showed up at the bar, where Wells Adams served them special drinks.

135d ago / 1:30 AM UTC

Charity Lawson and Joey Graziadei reunite before the wedding

Charity Lawson fell for Joey Graziadei on her season of "The Bachelorette," before ultimately choosing Dotun Olubeko. She and Dotun are still together. Joey, meanwhile, was chosen as the next "Bachelor."

Charity told Joey she was "so excited" for him to be the "Bachelor." She also confirmed the two had met at a bar after their intense "After the Final Rose" reunion.

"I'm still getting used to a lot of it," Joey said about his impending "Bachelor" season, which kicks off Jan. 22.

135d ago / 1:20 AM UTC

Leslie Fhima says she's 'here to support love'

Runner up Leslie Fhima and Gerry had a tearful breakup in Costa Rica before he ultimately went on to propose to Theresa. Or, as Kathy put it on the red carpet, “You had your heart broken on national TV.” Kathy also mentioned Leslie's health scare from earlier in the week, which coincided with her birthday.

She was supportive of the couple at their wedding.

"At our age, we have to celebrate love. I was very good friends with Theresa. We supported each other throughout the whole time in the house. I'm so happy for her and Gerry. I'm here to support love in any way," Leslie said.

Ben Higgins then crashed the interview.

135d ago / 1:15 AM UTC

Gerry's and Theresa's families spent the holidays together

A segment filmed before the wedding shows Gerry and Theresa gathering with their kids and grandkids over the holidays.

"I couldn't be happier," Gerry said, surrounded by his daughters and granddaughters, and Theresa's kids and grandkids. He later called it the "perfect start to new beginnings."

Gerry asked Theresa's grandsons if he could marry their nana. Leo said, "We're just like, children."

Their mom, Jenny Woolston, was on board. "My mom and Gerry look incredible together," she said.

Gerry's daughters also led the family through their late mom's Toni cinnamon cookie ball recipe. "It's happy and it's sad. It brings us all together. But it's sad ... I think she'd be happy that we're ... keeping it alive," Gerry's daughter Jenny Young said.

Woolston said of her late father Billy Nist, "He'd be happy for her and happy for us. He loved family all together.

135d ago / 1:08 AM UTC

Jesse Palmer says his wife is about to give birth 'at any moment'

At the start of the live event, Jesse Palmer announced that he nearly couldn't attend the wedding — because his wife, Emely Fardo, is about to give birth to their first child!

Palmer gave a sweet message to his wife before the event started, saying he would come home if anything ... progressed on the baby front.

The couple previously told People they were expecting a daughter. “I have two brothers and four nephews, so we are finally getting a female addition to the Palmer family,” said Palmer, 45.

Palmer said he “a little nervous” about raising a daughter. “I know our daughter is going to walk all over me — she already has me wrapped around her finger!” he said.



135d ago / 1:04 AM UTC

'Golden Bachelor' contestant Kathy Swarts is greeting arriving guests

Kathy Swarts may have been labeled a "mean girl" on "The Golden Bachelor," but she's putting her most welcoming face forward while greeting wedding guests as a "Gold Carpet Correspondent."

She and former "Bachelorette" Charity Lawson will be saying hello to the guests as they arrive to the Southern California event.

KATHY
Kathy from “The Golden Bachelor."Ricky Middlesworth / ABC
135d ago / 11:15 PM UTC

Meet Susan Noles, the officiant

Susan Noles was a fan favorite among the "Golden Bachelor" cast and fans for her peppy, supportive attitude. While she never went on a one-on-one date with Gerry, she seemed to cheer on all the women who did.

Her "girl's girl" energy reached a peak when she announced she would be officiating the ceremony.

SUSAN, GERRY TURNER
Susan Noles and Gerry Turner.John Fleenor / ABC

"I guess the secret is out! I’m officiating THE GOLDEN WEDDING and I’m just beyond excited!” she wrote on Instagram.

Theresa had an enthusiastic response, writing in the comments, “We couldn’t be more thrilled to have you officiate for us, Susan!!! Love you so much for being the wonderful woman you are and for doing this for us!!! We cannot wait!!!”

135d ago / 11:15 PM UTC

What other Bachelor Nation couples have tied the knot on TV?

Eight Bachelor Nation couples have gotten married in TV specials, starting with first-ever "Bachelorette" Trista Rehn and Ryan Sutter in 2003. The rest include:

  • Jason Mesnick and Molly Malaney (2010)
  • Ashley Hebert and J.P. Rosenbaum (2012)
  • Sean Lowe and Catherine Giudici (2014)
  • Marcus Grodd and Lacy Faddoul (2014)
  • Tanner Tolbert and Jade Roper (2016)
  • Evan Bass and Carly Waddell (2017)
  • Kenny Braasch and Mari Pepin (2023)

Of these eight couples, five are still together: Trista and Ryan, Jason and Molly, Sean and Catherine, Tanner and Jade and the most recent, Kenny and Mari.


135d ago / 11:15 PM UTC

Who's invited to the 'Golden Wedding'? A peek at the guest list

Gerry and Theresa have shared details about the "Golden Wedding" in interviews leading up to the big day, including the guest list.

The couple told Entertainment Weekly that they estimate about 100 to 150 guests. The entire cast of "The Golden Bachelor" was invited, as were some Bachelor Nation members and close family and friends, Theresa said.

"Golden Bachelor" frontrunner Leslie Fhima confirmed she would attend in a post to her Instagram story Jan. 3, seemingly putting her tearful breakup in the show's finale behind her. Susan Noles, a fan favorite, will be the officiant.

In terms of Bachelor Nation, Trista and Ryan Sutter, as are Jason and Molly Mesnick. Future Bachelor Joey Graziadei is there, as is past Bachelor Ben Higgins. So is Wells Adams.

Both Gerry and Theresa have two children and multiple grandchildren. Nist confirmed they would have a place in the bridal party.

“There’s not anybody that’s left out,” she told Entertainment Weekly. “It’s going to be a big bridal party. I have six grandsons. We have several men in our lives. We have women in our lives. Everybody will be involved.”


135d ago / 11:15 PM UTC

The "Golden Wedding" will air on Thursday, Jan. 4 at 8 p.m. ET on ABC, and will stream the following day on Hulu and Disney+. The special will span two hours.