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Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck's relationship timeline

On her wedding day, Lopez wore two beautiful gowns and said one of them was from “an old movie” she had done before.

Jennifer Lopez has finally revealed which wedding dress she wore when marrying Ben Affleck.

On her the day of the ceremony, Lopez donned two gowns: one was a textured long white dress she sported solo on Instagram and the other was a white, off-the-shoulder dress that she was pictured in next to Affleck.

However, it's unclear exactly which gown she wore to walk down the aisle.

When speaking about her wedding dress on her website, Lopez said she got married in “a dress from an old movie and a jacket from Ben’s closet.”

Although fans theorized that the gown to which Lopez was referring was her dress from “Jersey Girl,” the “On The Floor” singer set the record straight in a Feb. 13 interview with Variety.

Jennifer Lopez's two wedding dresses can be seen here side by side.
Jennifer Lopez's two wedding dresses can be seen here side by side.Jennifer Lopez

“No, that’s not true,” she said of the speculation after letting out a huge laugh. “I wish it was. I wish I did have that dress. I don’t have that dress. No, this was a different dress that I had.

“Believe it or not, I was doing so much press for ‘Marry Me’ or ‘Shotgun Wedding’ or one of those, and so, I had all these wedding dresses in my house. And when we, at the spur of the moment decided to get married that day, I just had a dress. It’s not from a movie. Yeah, I never wore it in a movie. It was just, I had it because I was doing photo shoots and performances of ‘Marry Me’ everywhere at that time.”

In July 2022, Affleck and Lopez tied the knot in a Las Vegas wedding. After reconnecting with the actor in 2021, Lopez felt inspired to make her new album, “This Is Me... Now."

During a Feb. 15 appearance on TODAY, Lopez shared how “supportive” Affleck was of her new body of work.

“He inspires me and obviously, the feelings between us inspired me making this music,” she said.

Jennnifer Lopez
Jennifer Lopez on TODAY.Nathan Congleton / TODAY

“He’s always supportive of whatever I’m doing,” she continued. “And he knows that I’m a creative person and I’m an artist, and I’m going to express myself in the ways. I don’t think anybody really understood what I was trying to do and that made it hard... But he was always kind of like, ‘You can do this. Whatever you want to do. I believe in you, so you go and do your thing.’”

Later that morning on TODAY with Hoda & Jenna, Lopez played a game with Hoda Kotb and revealed that she would get jealous if someone hit on Affleck.

"Don't play with me, do not play with me" Lopez said with a smile as Hoda cracked up.

"I'm a lover not a fighter but I would let them know, in a very elegant and ladylike way, to step all the way off," Lopez concluded.

Read on to see a timeline of Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck's relationship.

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck meet for the first time

In 2002, Lopez and Affleck first crossed paths when they met on the set of their movie, "Gigli," which was released the following year.

At the time, Lopez was still married to her second husband, Cris Judd. However, in July 2002, Lopez filed for divorce from Judd couple, citing "irreconcilable differences," according to People. This led Lopez and Affleck to strike up a public romance shortly after.

While recalling their first encounter, Lopez told People in 2016 that she “felt like … ‘OK, this is it,’” when she started talking to Affleck.

“[But] sometimes I feel like what you think people are and how you see them when you love them is different than when they reveal later," she added.

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck get engaged

In November 2002, Affleck and Lopez got engaged.

In an interview with Diane Sawyer at the time, Lopez explained how it felt to see the engagement ring he proposed to her with on her finger.

"It's the most magnificent thing I've ever seen," she said. "I still look at it. I kind of marvel at it. He was like, 'I just wanted you to have something that nobody else would have.'"

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck break up

In 2004, Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck called off their engagement.

During a November 2022 appearance on Apple Music, Lopez talked about their breakup and said it was the “biggest heartbreak” of her life.

“Once we called off that wedding 20 years ago, it was the biggest heartbreak of my life, and I honestly felt like I was going to die," she said. "And it sent me on a spiral for the next 18 years where I just couldn’t get it right.”

Los Angeles Premiere Of Amazon MGM Studios' 'This Is Me...Now: A Love Story'
Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez called off their engagement in 2004," which she later said in an interview was the "biggest heartbreak" of her life.Xavier Collin / Sipa USA via AP

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck reconnect

In 2021, Lopez and Affleck reconnected after she broke up with fiancé Alex Rodriguez earlier that year.

During a May 2023 appearance on TODAY, Lopez's mom, Guadalupe Rodríguez said she always felt like her daughter and the actor were meant to be.

“I knew that you would always get back together because I prayed for 20 years,” Guadalupe Rodríguez told Lopez on the show.

In response, Lopez playfully nodded and said, "OK," as if she had heard that one before.

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck get engaged (again)

In April 2022, Affleck popped the question to Lopez for a second time.

The "On The Floor" singer shared the happy news to her fans when she posted a video of herself admiring the ring, which featured a green diamond on her finger.

In the video, which was shared with subscribers to her newsletter On the JLo, she was seen saying, “You’re perfect" to the ring.

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck get married

In July 2022, Lopez and Affleck got married in Las Vegas.

Lopez's rep shared the happy news in a statement to TODAY.com. The message was also shared on her fan.

"We did it. Love is beautiful. Love is kind. And it turns out love is patient. Twenty years patient," she said.

Lopez also talked about their wedding, which happened "exactly" the way they wanted. Lopez said that she and Affleck waited in line with four other couples to wait for their wedding license.

“Behind us two men held hands and held each other. In front of us, a young couple who made the three hour drive from Victorville on their daughter’s second birthday — all of us wanting the same thing — for the world to recognize us as partners and to declare our love to the world through the ancient and nearly universal symbol of marriage,” she wrote.

“So with the best witnesses you could ever imagine, a dress from an old movie and a jacket from Ben’s closet, we read our own vows in the little chapel and gave one another the rings we’ll wear for the rest of our lives,” she added.

Jennifer Lopez shares why she changed her last name

In a November 2022 interview with Vogue, Lopez opened up about her decision to take her husband's last name.

After receiving some backlash about it, especially in an opinion piece by The New York Times, Lopez said she felt it was only right to change her last name to Affleck because she and the actor are now husband and wife.

“People are still going to call me Jennifer Lopez. But my legal name will be Mrs. Affleck because we’re joined together," she said. "We’re husband and wife. I’m proud of that. I don’t think that’s a problem.”

Ben Affleck sings for Jennifer Lopez in Dunkin' commercial

At the 2024 Super Bowl, Dunkin' aired an ad that showed Affleck performing a song, alongside Tom Brady and an embarrassed Matt Damon, in front of J. Lo.

Although Jack Harlow, who also appeared in the ad, told Affleck not to do it, he still did it anyway.

“Sometimes it’s really hard to be your friend,” Damon said during the performance.

Lopez was shocked by the song, and Affleck and his dance crew left the recording studio without landing a spot on her album.

“Remember when I told you I’d do anything for you? This is anything,” Damon said at the end of the clip.

“Chill. They're naming a drink after us,” Affleck replied.

Jennifer Lopez says Ben Affleck inspired her new album "This Is Me... Now"

During a Feb. 15 appearance on TODAY, Lopez talked about her new album, "This Is Me... Now," which takes listeners on an emotional journey of her love life through the years.

On the show, Lopez said her romance with Affleck "inspired" her to make this album after they reconnected a few years prior.

“He inspires me and obviously, the feelings between us inspired me making this music,” she said.

Lopez added that Affleck has also been very “supportive” of her work. On the album, Lopez has a song called "Dear Ben, Pt. II," which is the sequel to her 2002 bop, “Dear Ben.”

“He’s always supportive of whatever I’m doing. And he knows that I’m a creative person and I’m an artist, and I’m going to express myself in the ways. I don’t think anybody really understood what I was trying to do and that made it hard...,” she said. “But he was always kind of like, ‘You can do this. Whatever you want to do. I believe in you, so you go and do your thing.’”

Jennifer Lopez reveals which wedding dress she got married in

On her wedding day, Lopez donned two gowns, one was a textured long white dress she sported solo on Instagram and the other was a white, off-the-shoulder dress that she was pictured in next to Affleck.

Although it's unclear which dress she got married in, Lopez said on her website that she donned “a dress from an old movie for the ceremony.

Although fans theorized that the gown Lopez was referring to was her dress from “Jersey Girl,” she said it actually wasn’t in a Feb. 13 interview she did with Variety.

Jennifer Lopez's two wedding dresses can be seen here side by side.
Jennifer Lopez's two wedding dresses can be seen here side by side.Jennifer Lopez

“No, that’s not true,” she said of the speculation while letting out a huge laugh. “I wish it was. I wish I did have that dress. I don’t have that dress.”

“No, this was a different dress that I had. Believe it or not, I was doing so much press for ‘Marry Me’ or ‘Shotgun Wedding’ or one of those, and so, I had all these wedding dresses in my house. And when we, at the spur of the moment decided to get married that day, I just had a dress. It’s not from a movie,” she shared. “Yeah, I never wore it in a movie. It was just, I had it because I was doing photo shoots and performances of ‘Marry Me’ everywhere at that time.”