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‘There’s no one way to be gay’: Lee Rodriguez on what ‘Never Have I Ever’ gets right about her character

“She can be a robotics geek and support the LGBTQ community … you can do it all,” Rodriguez told TODAY.

For “Never Have I Ever” star Lee Rodriguez, playing the character of Fabiola Torres and exploring her sexuality shows the world that there’s “no wrong or right way” to be gay.

Rodriguez, 22, is otherwise known as the shy, nerdy and awkward best friend of Devi Vishwakumar on the Netflix original series. Rodriguez told TODAY that she loves playing Fabiola because she sees herself in the character, something fans have told her as well.

Rodriguez said she appreciates how the series sheds light on an experience that many queer teens in high school share.

Rodriguez co-stars with Maitreyi Ramakrishnan (left) and Eleanor Wong (middle) on "Never Have I Ever."
Rodriguez co-stars with Maitreyi Ramakrishnan (left) and Eleanor Wong (middle) on "Never Have I Ever."Netflix

“I went to this event, and there was this young girl, and she told me how much it meant to her seeing an awkward teenager in high school and just said that she really resonated with that,” Rodriguez said. “I guess I never realized how many different people would see themselves in Fabiola. So it’s awesome, and I love it. And I’ve loved playing her.”

But Fabiola’s coming out wasn’t a linear process. In Season One, she personally came to terms with her sexuality, but in Season Two, as she explores the queer community at her high school, she begins to have “way more questions than she did answers.”

"I guess I never realized how many different people would see themselves in Fabiola," Rodriguez (right) said.
"I guess I never realized how many different people would see themselves in Fabiola," Rodriguez (right) said. Netflix

These layered experiences in the show, Rodriguez said, are important to show young queer viewers that her journey is realistic.

“I feel like Season Two, it just goes to show there’s no one way to be gay,” Rodriguez said. “It’s just whatever you feel. And so that’s what I really loved about her journey in season two — coming to terms that she can be a robotics geek and support the LGBTQ community … you can do it all.”

“I feel like season two, it just goes to show there’s no one way to be gay,” Rodriguez said. “It’s just whatever you feel. And so that’s what I really loved about her journey in season two — coming to terms that she can be a robotics geek and support the LGBTQ community … you can do it all.”

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After the release of “Never Have I Ever,” Rodriguez said she’s consistently been asked about her own sexuality and whether or not she’s “pretending to be a lesbian.” While she said these comments made her question if she’s a valid queer person, she said playing Fabiola helped her come to terms with the fact that it’s “an irrelevant thing.”

As long as she’s secure in her own identity, she owes nothing to anyone else.

“You know what? Sometimes you don’t even have to come out, like it’s all up to you. You can come out, you can not come out — it’s whatever makes you feel comfortable,” she said. “I’m so thankful to play Fabiola … I feel like I learned a lot.”

Rodriguez, who plays Fabiola, shares a scene with Christina Kartchner.
Rodriguez, who plays Fabiola, shares a scene with Christina Kartchner.Netflix

Rodriguez also teased Season Three, which is set to premiere on Aug. 12. While she couldn’t say too much, she did share that viewers will get to see Fabiola “come into her own.”

“There’s going to be a lot of surprises … specifically with Fabiola, a lot of things that people did not expect,” Rodriguez said. “So that’s all I can say — but it’s going to be awesome.”