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Tea party photos of military dads and daughters brew precious memories

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California photographer Vanessa Hicks knows the sacrifices military families when a parent is deployed. She is a Navy veteran, and her husband, Josh, has served in the Navy for 16 years, leaving their daughters without their dad during his deployments.

Her family's challenges inspired Hicks to offer a tea party photo shoot to other military families as a way to celebrate the Month of the Military Child.

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Navy Lieut. Andrew Bradstreet with his daughter, Aliya.

"I am always thinking of creative ways to document and honor our military members," Hicks told TODAY. "April is the Month of the Military Child, and I truly love this month because it needs to be remembered how much these kids sacrifice as well ... I thought creating an intimate setting, something that all little girls love like playing dress-up and drinking tea with their hero, would be a great way to honor this month."

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"Memories fade," said Hicks. "But the photos I take for my clients - I am documenting their legacy."

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Hicks has photographed her husband and daughters, as well as several other military families. Her images celebrate dads having tea with their daughters, offering them flowers, and making priceless memories.

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Air Force Capt. Jake Sabin with his daughter, Lila.

Jake Sabin, who was photographed with his daughter, Lila, says making those memories is important, because military members never know when they may be called away from home.

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"Opportunities like this allow us to make a special memory," said Sabin. "A memory that's just the two of us, one that makes up for the one we missed making while I was deployed."

"We try to make the best of the moments we do have together because there will be times where I will miss a birthday, a first day of school, a concert or a sports event," Sabin said.

"Opportunities like this allow us to make a special memory, a memory that's just for the two of us, one that makes up for the one we missed making while I was deployed."

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Navy Lieut. Josh Hicks with his daughter, Tatyana.

Hicks says she has also photographed several families as a parent leaves for, or returns from, a deployment.

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Nave Lieut. Josh Hicks with his daughter, Jasmine.

When a military member comes home, "they go back to just being Mom or Dad," Hicks said. "These images show that. Even though they are our nation's heroes, the person they mean the most to are those little girls in those images. You can see it on their faces."

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"Even though they are our nation's heroes, the person they mean the most to are those little girls in those images," said Hicks. "You can see it on their faces."

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Matt Bender was photographed with his daughter, Maddie.

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"April is the Month of the Military Child," said Hicks. "And, I truly love this month because it needs to be remembered how much these kids sacrifice as well."

"I wanted to take these pictures because I will never have another opportunity to capture these special moments," said Bender. "Tomorrow, she will be a little older and the opportunity will be lost."

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Army Maj. Matt Bender with daughter, Maddie.

"I have missed a portion of her life due to my chosen profession and it remains one of the toughest things I have done," Bender added. "And let's face the reality — when your only daughter wants to have a tea party, Daddy sits down and has a tea party."

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"I wanted to take these pictures because I will never have another opportunity to capture these special moments," said Bender. "Tomorrow she will be a little older, and the opportunity will be lost."

This article was originally published on April 28, 2016 on TODAY.com.

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