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Tyler James Williams calls out ‘very dangerous’ ‘culture’ of speculating about people’s sexuality

The “Abbott Elementary” star addressed rumors of his sexuality in a statement on his Instagram story, condemning the “dangerous message” it can send.
/ Source: TODAY

Tyler James Williams marked the start of Pride Month with a statement speaking out against speculation of his sexuality.

The “Abbott Elementary” star shared a statement to his Instagram story June 4, which began, “Usually I wouldn’t address stuff like this but I feel like it as a conversation is bigger than me.”

“I’m not gay; but I think the culture of trying to ‘find’ some kind of hidden trait or behavior that a closeted person ‘let slip’ is very dangerous,” he wrote. “Overanalyzing someones behavior in an attempt to ‘catch’ them directly contributes to the anxiety a lot of queer and queer questioning people feel when they fear living in their truth.”

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Tyler James Williams at the 54th NAACP Image Awards in February.Unique Nicole / FilmMagic

The "Everybody Hates Chris" actor noted that this speculation can make everyday conversations "feel less safe" for members of the LGBTQ community and those who are still figuring out their sexualities.

He added that it also "reinforces an archetype" that can limit individual expression. The 30-year-old said that he aims to use his platform to “push back against those archetypes.”

“Being straight doesn’t look one way. Being gay doesn’t look one way,” he wrote. “And what may seem like harmless fun and conversation may actually be sending a dangerous message to those struggle with real issues. I refuse to inadvertently contribute to that message.”

He then addressed his “queer and questioning brothers, sisters, and individuals” and shared a message of support, writing, “I pray that you feel seen in ways that make you feel safe in the celebration that is this month.”

“As an ally I continue to be committed to assisting in that where I can and helping to cultivate a future where we are all accepted and given permission to be ourselves,” he concluded the statement.

Tyler James Williams calls out "dangerous" speculation.
Tyler James Williams calls out "dangerous" speculation.

Tyler’s message was met with support from his younger brothers, Tyrel Jackson Williams, 26, and Tylen Jacob Williams, 21. 

In a lengthy Twitter thread, Tyrel, known for starring in "Lab Rats" and "Brockmire," celebrated how his older brother handled both Tylen's and his own coming out journeys.

“He COMPLETELY deconstructed his views on masculinity and made sure to build spaces for us to be comfortable and seen until we were ready to tell our friends/family," Tyrel wrote.

Tyler would read and discuss literature, listen to his brothers' problems and give advice where he could, he said.

Tyrel added, "We all rebuilt our definition of manhood together, brick-by-brick. And it was not easy work. But we weren’t doing it alone."

“I want to give Ty his flowers this pride month,” Tyrel wrote to conclude his thread. “A true representation of healthy masculinity and effective allyship. Give him all of the awards forever.”

The youngest Williams sibling, Tylen, shared screenshots of Tyrel’s thread on his Instagram, using the caption to pen a heartfelt message about his older brothers, who he cited as the reason he was able to become “well adjusted” and “comfortable” with his sexuality.

“The way Tyler unashamedly and instantaneously accepted me and Tyrels coming out without batting an eye and continued to rally behind us and fight for us whenever we needed it, even when we felt as though we could not, speaks volumes for people like me and how powerful it is to have such an active straight ally in your life,” he wrote.

He concluded the message with a summary of his intentions for the post, writing, “Learn how to act, Respect others, show my brothers some love for being so damn intelligent, and Happy Pride.”

Tyler had a touching response to his youngest brother's post, writing in the comments, “I love you kid and I’ll drag anyone to hell for you. Thank you.”