LL Cool J's first fitness book, showed how the superstar got and maintained his amazing physique. Now, in “LL Cool J's Platinum 360 Diet and Lifestyle,” he's sharing the secrets that have helped him achieve his greatest goals not only in the gym, but as an actor, businessman and multiplatinum musician. Learn about the full-circle guide that helped him to develop his mind, body and soul. Read an excerpt.Chapter one
Dare to be great
I’ve always been someone who made things happen for myself, maybe because I was an only child. I had to create things on my own, and I was probably a little impatient, too. I just never wanted to wait. I was the kid who didn’t wait for his parents to put the hammock together. They came home and it was already put together. When I was 8 years old and playing peewee football, I realized my mother had forgotten to put my uniform in the wash. No way was I going to the game in a dirty uniform. I wasn’t quite sure how to use the washing machine, but I figured it out. I got to the game in a uniform that was still wet, but at least I had done it myself.
Look, there are three types of people: those who understand on their own, those who understand when they’re told, and those who never understand. I always understood on my own, but self-starting is difficult. Master it and you’ll give yourself a head start to your dreams.
So be proactive. Don’t wait for someone to tell you to begin. Don’t wait for life to throw you a curve or deal you a bad hand before you decide to take charge. Do it now.
Have a vision. When you have a clear vision of your goal, it’s easier to take the first step toward it. If you don’t have a vision or a plan, there’s no reason to take that step.
Set your goals and stick to them
A writer named Edward De Bono wrote “A man without a goal is like a cork floating on the ocean.” He doesn’t control his own destiny. You’re at the mercy of the ocean, and where you end up is up to the tide. Goals are the building blocks of your overall life plan. If you’re the kind of person who orchestrates the day around whoever knocks on the door at any given moment, then you don’t have a plan. That’s being rudderless. I can’t remember the last time I didn’t have a strategy for the day and specific goals to conquer, even if I got just one step closer. That’s how I operate every day of my life.
Cultivate your imagination
The whole idea that man is the architect of his own fortune is something I subscribe to. If you can dream it, you can be it. Imagination is a powerful tool as well as a gift. If you want something, you have to see it in your mind before it can happen. The great thing is that these dreams don’t have deadlines. A lot of people get the sense that if they didn’t envision a specific career when they were kids it’s too late by the time they’re adults. Doesn’t work like that, but thinking like a child helps. There’s nothing more pure and honest than a child’s imagination. Children can dream up anything. They don’t understand the concept of I Can’t as it relates to dreaming. They are free of all that nasty, toxic drama that adults carry and can easily envision the places in life they want to visit. If a kid can brush aside No and I Can’t, so can you. I call it having the right type of innocence, something that’s pure and joyful and passionate and comes from a place of love. Innocence doesn’t equal naïveté but, rather, purity. When you find that within yourself, you’ll see that imagination just bursting out of you and its manifestations taking place in your life.
When you love what you do, it’s not a jobDo what you love; you’ll be better at it. It sounds pretty simple, but you’d be surprised how many people don’t get this one right away. Bill Gates would not have pioneered the software industry if he didn’t have an absolute fervor for personal computing. Kobe Bryant, Denzel Washington, and anyone you can think of who is at the top of his field wouldn’t be there if not for the love they have for what they do. That’s not to say love alone will vault you to the top of whatever career path you choose. But that love will get you through the rough patches. It will keep you from throwing in the towel when you think the weight is too heavy.
Limitations come from many kinds of different sources. They can come from our own minds due to a lack of self-confidence, or they can be thrust upon us by others. If everybody in your neighborhood thinks you’re going to grow up to be a failure, you could start to doubt yourself. That’s a limitation. It may be as simple as a lack of money or transportation or the proper tools to get to where you want to be. Sometimes limitations can be both physical and mental. Whatever they might be, identify them. Acknowledge your limitations and move past them.
Novel idea: Be yourself
Do you know anyone who has tried to model his life on someone else, be it a celebrity, a family member — whoever? They say imitation is the sincerest form of flattery. I say imitation is the number one killer of individualism. Be yourself. It’s who you were meant to be. But people often see possibilities in others and only limitations in themselves. If you see a man driving a nice car, you may want that car, but you have no idea about what kind of hard work, struggle, and sacrifice he may have had to go through to enable him to have a car like that. Sallust, a Roman historian, once said, “If they envy my distinction let them also envy my toils.” If you never look beyond the persona, image, or public façades of anyone who seems to have the things you aspire to, it’s easy to feel like everybody’s life is better than yours. You’re thinking that all you have is struggles, setbacks, and one obstacle after another. Well, believe me, the guy with the fancy car has obstacles of his own. So instead of wishing you were in the car, you could be tackling the obstacles that stand between you and that car by being true to your vision. Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.
Face your fears
One of my favorite quotes is from Martin Luther King Jr., who said: “If you know it’s the right thing to do but you’re afraid, do it anyway.” A lot of people will stay in a dead-end job or refuse to venture outside their comfort zone simply due to fear. Sometimes life requires you to step away from what’s familiar to you, from what’s safe, in order to go after what you truly desire. Imagine a guy working at a comfortable job that pays a good salary. You might look at him and think he has it made, even though beneath the surface he’s unhappy, uninspired, and downright frustrated because he’s not doing something he’s truly passionate about. He thinks about following his passion to another career all the time but is afraid to attempt the transition because he’s been in his comfort zone for so long. My advice is simple: Go do it. Now.
Sometimes you have to put your gloves on. Stand up and face your fears, or they will defeat you. The key is don’t make things bigger than they really are. Imagine you are standing in front of a 2-foot-wide chasm that’s just a foot deep. You could jump over it with no more thought than you’d take stepping off a curb. Now imagine that same chasm 2 feet wide but 1,000 feet deep. The thought of jumping over it makes your body tense up. Sweat starts to bead on your forehead. All of a sudden, you’re psyching yourself out despite the fact that it requires no more physical skill or exertion than the first jump. When I decided I wanted to pursue acting, I had to be willing to bare my soul. It wasn’t an easy thing to do. I was worried that it would affect my music. I knew that I was going to have to step outside of the image that I had cultivated in the music industry and be a different guy. I knew that I might be called on to play a character that wasn’t cool or to be vulnerable, and that was a scary thing. But I moved past it. I didn’t let the fear close off my options or limit my dreams. Don’t let the fear dominate you. I often find that when you overcome your fear, you’ll look back and wonder what you were so afraid of. Facing your fear will set you free.
Excerpted from “Platinum 360 Diet and Lifestyle” by LL COOL J. Copyright (c) 2010 by James Todd Smith. Published by Rodale Books.