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Ben Higgins responds to rumors after Lauren Bushnell breakup: 'I am not perfect'

Ben Higgins is feeling the heat since his split with Lauren Bushnell.

The former "Bachelor" took to Instagram to respond to rumors that he was already romancing his new podcast co-host, Bachelor Nation star Ashley Iaconetti.

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You are going to hurt somebody, you are going to hurt somebody deeply. But, I will not be one of those people. I cannot focus on the negative comments or indecently hateful words being said about me or my relationship even though they do sting. I do know great people that I care about deeply that comments and criticisms have affected and as a result I wanted to share my words. A small minority of people (at least I will continue to believe it is a small minority) want to see people suffer or fail. Personally, my basis for judging myself is simple, if I do something that doesn’t represent Christ then I will listen to the opinions and words from family and friends who know me best and love me. I do desire (by the direction of family and peers) to become a better person daily. I know some will not agree with my intentions but in all things my pursuit is to represent Christ better. With that, I will once again clearly tell you I AM NOT PERFECT as none of us are and I have never claimed to be. I do desire to show love in all situations (do I always do that? No, I fail often). To be clear, not that this should be a surprise, but this podcast is a professional decision I have made to enhance my life and career. I still have a full time job. I am still running Generous Coffee company. I still have a blog. I am still actively involved in @humanityandhope. And now, because I was given the opportunity, I have added a podcast with a friend and a great company (@iheartradio) to talk about life (and I love to talk). The last few months have not gone the way I would have preferred. My relationships have changed drastically and what I envisioned my life was going to be has been redirected. It is sad, but it is nothing you should feel sorry for me about, life happens both the good and bad. With this, what do you think I should do now? For all of you that have given me advice let me give you some from my heart. Love as hard as you can (even to strangers). Ask yourself what life is about and pursue your conclusion with passion. When a good opportunity comes your way that fits your desires take it, because life is short but a lot more fun when you are doing something you enjoy.

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"I cannot focus on the negative comments or indecently hateful words being said about me or my relationship even though they do sting," Higgins, 29, wrote next to a photo of him and Iaconetti in the studio.

Higgins announced his split with Bushnell, 27, on May 15, and immediately afterward shared news of his new "Ben and Ashley: Almost Famous" iHeart podcast.

"A small minority of people (at least I will continue to believe it is a small minority) want to see people suffer or fail," Higgins continued in his post. "Personally, my basis for judging myself is simple, if I do something that doesn’t represent Christ then I will listen to the opinions and words from family and friends who know me best and love me."

"With that, I will once again clearly tell you I AM NOT PERFECT as none of us are and I have never claimed to be," wrote the star. "I do desire to show love in all situations (do I always do that? No, I fail often)."

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Higgins and Bushnell as they appeared in their spinoff series, "Ben & Lauren: Happily Ever After?"

"The last few months have not gone the way I would have preferred. My relationships have changed drastically and what I envisioned my life was going to be has been redirected," Higgins wrote candidly.

Though he and Iaconetti, 29, were spotted together at a Bryan Adams concert in Los Angeles on May 20, Higgins described their new podcast as a "professional decision" made to "enhance my life and career."

He concluded his post with his own words of advice about love and life.

"Love as hard as you can (even to strangers). Ask yourself what life is about and pursue your conclusion with passion," he wrote. "When a good opportunity comes your way that fits your desires take it, because life is short but a lot more fun when you are doing something you enjoy."

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