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Dad who recreated photos of deceased wife with daughter inspires fellow widower

Ben Nunery recreated photos of his deceased wife, Ali, with their daughter, Olivia. Rafael Del Col of Brazil was inspired to do the same.
/ Source: TODAY

Coping with the loss of a loved one is a deeply personal process. What works for one person may not work for another. But we must keep trying new processes of grieving. We just might end up inspiring someone else who has suffered a similar loss.

Whether he intended to or not, this is what Cincinnati dad Ben Nunery has done.

In 2013, he and his then-3-year-old daughter, Olivia, posed for a series of photographs that recreated pictures he had taken with his wife, Ali, whom he’d lost to cancer two years earlier.

Ben Nunery recreated wedding photos with his daughter Olivia, after his wife died.
Ben and his daughter Olivia in a 2013 photo (bottom) that recreated one he once took with his late wife, Ali, who died in 2011.Melanie Tracy Pace / Loft3 Photography

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In the pictures, shot by Ali’s sister Melanie Pace, Olivia appeared like a miniature version of her mother, posing beside her dad just like her mom had when the two were newlyweds starting their life in a new home.

At the time, Nunery told that he took the photos to say farewell to the house — he and Olivia were moving out — and to remember the wonderful memories he and Ali made there.

Ben Nunery recreated wedding pics with his little girl after his wife and her mom passed away.
Nunery's moving pics inspired a widowed father thousands of miles away in Brazil to create a similar project with his daughter.Melanie Tracy Pace/Loft3 Photography

Meanwhile, that same year, a man thousands of miles away in Brazil suffered a similar tragedy.

Rafael Del Col, 35, lost his 27-year-old wife, Tatiane Valques, when she was killed in a car accident. They had a 2-year-old daughter together, Raisa.

According to his blog, Del Col was inspired by Nunery’s photos and organized a similar shoot with himself and Raisa.

Like Nunery, Del Col put the recreated pictures with Raisa next to those taken with Tatiane. The adorable toddler even wears jewelry that belonged to her mother. made several attempt to reach Del Col for comment, but he didn’t respond.

Nunery, though, says he was delighted to see that his project inspired another grieving husband.

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"I've seen his photos and they are beautiful,” Nunery, 36, tells “I hope that sharing his deep love for his daughter and his wife with the world helps him in the same way it has helped me.”

“Being a widow or widower is such a lonely experience and just knowing that there are people out there that share that grief takes some of the loneliness away,” he says.

As for Olivia, who is 5-years-old, Nunery says she is doing great, and have both adjusted to their “new reality.” Nunery is a vice president at a marketing agency in Cincinnati, and they live right across the river in Fort Thomas, Kentucky.

Ben Nunery and his daughter Olivia make their own memories after wife and mom died.
Ben Nunery and his daughter Olivia in 2015. The two are focused on making new memories together.Courtesy of Ben Nunery

They family has been encouraged by the supportive messages they received from people who were moved by their photo series.

“[The messages] not only helped me personally but, I believe, helped those that were reaching out to me simply by sharing their own stories with someone that could understand,” he said.

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Nunery has even found what he may have once doubted was possible: a new love.

Ben Nunery and his daughter Olivia take adorable new photo.
"Being a widow or widower is such a lonely experience and just knowing that there are people out there that share that grief takes some of the loneliness away,” Nunery tells of Ben Nunery

He’s been dating a new woman for around a year, a mom to a 2-year-old boy who is also a recent widow.

“I knew her husband as well, so the whole story of how our lives have come together is a long one and pretty hard to believe,” Nunery says.

“We are really happy together and are able to support each other in so many ways that we wouldn't have with anyone else.”

Meanwhile, Nunery has some new photos with Olivia, which he’s shared exclusively with

Ben Nunery and his daughter Olivia take adorable new selfie
Courtesy of Ben Nunery

He no longer recreates photos he took with Ali. Instead, he and Olivia are making brand new memories of their own.