TODAY | March 26, 2014
>>> online dating rituals of the american male. it will leave you shaking your head. first these messages.
>>> dating websites are very big these days. according to match.com, 31% of people met their last date online.
>> a new show on bravo called online dating rituals of the american male goes behind the scenes with real guys looking for love allegedly. take a look.
>> the best part you can go on multiple days the same day. if you like someone you like, blow off the last few dates. it.
>> i'm in the bail bonds difference.
>> i'm a psychologist.
>> i want my free psycho analysis . i read on your profile.
>> is that in a good way?
>> let's meet our bachelors shall we? let's start off with adae bennett, works as a graphic artist. we've met you alex. 27 year-old entrepreneur from texas alex star.
>> bachelor number three jay key. 42 years old and loves cats.
>> first question. i'm sorry. it's a short interview. we picked our favorite trait. that was it.
>> let's start off with you guys. if you want to open a conversation with a woman what's the way you do it online?
>> keep it simple . little hey, how you doing? yada yada . i don't ask them deep questions.
>> my first message. like if i was sending you a message i'd compliment you because you're so beautiful. you're the same guy that said you'd blow off the last few dates.
>> let's be real. love, lust, whatever i'm looking for. if i find it, i'm not going to waste time chasing other girls.
>> i'm not a psycho path.
>> the cat man.
>> i do love cats. that's not my entiidentity. i write something to let them know i read their profile.
>> a lot of girls are worried about pictures they post and profiles. first thing immediately the photograph. do you need a full length picture?
>> i need different angles.
>> not so much anymore.
>> cat man looking good now.
>> cat guy is moving up.
>> all right. okay. what do you like in a profile when you look at a profile. what do you look at first?
>> what she's wearing, how she looks.
>> most important thing is humor. girl has to be funny. like you two ladies, you have a beautiful sense of humor.
>> let's go back to the cat guy.
>> i enjoy humor and beauty u. i like to look at someone that knows themselves well, articulate what they like and what they're looking for. i like specific thing on their profile. what they're interested in, looking for, not looking for.
>> do you want girls who respond quickly or play a game?
>> quick response.
>> how quickly do you meet them after you've made a connect online?
>> right away.
>> actually agree with them. as soon as possible.
>> it's a two way street. girl is looking to go on a date fast too.
>> it's competition.
>> say you're at a dinner. what do you do?
>> little drink or something like that.
>> when i first started dating online, i was finding great pen pal as but not great dates.
>> how long have you been doing this?
>> over a year.
>> i've been doing it three years.
>> have you met anybody?
>> i've met a lot of girls.
>> have you met like a real somebody?
>> i met a girl on the show. you obviously haven't seen the show. me and a girl have gotten very freaky.
>> i'm so out it's unbelievable.
>> what about cat man?
>> online rituals of the dating american male airs on bravo.