TODAY | February 25, 2013
>> entrepreneur, actress, tv host , wife, and mom -- wow -- lala anthony, her mission to conquer the world on her new vh1 show -- well, it's not new. it's called "lala's full court life."
>> she'll tell us why the fabulous life and career and her husband nba all-star carmelo anthony is at an all-time high for season three of their reality show .
>> look at you.
>> it's extremely short dress. a little inappropriate for the morning. nonetheless, attractive.
>> well, thank you.
>> how are you, darling?
>> everything is great. how are you?
>> we're good.
>> you have a lot of balls in the air. i got to tell you.
>> you know what --
>> everybody is sick. every one of you.
>> she can't juggle any of them because she's holding her dress down.
>> you do have a lot going on. you have your reality show . you have a beautiful son who is about to turn 6.
>> a lot.
>> how do you hand all of it?
>> you know, i just find that you can't do it all in one day, and i have been okay with that. i feel like we're our own worst critics. when we don't get it done, we beat ourselves up.
>> if you don't finish it all in one day, it's okay.
>> do you feel torn, though? do you feel like you're always letting somebody down, whether it's your husband or your child or your career?
>> i definitely feel like that. somebody is always losing a little bit of my time, but then i'll go back and try to make up for it somehow.
>> priority number one is --
>> my son. priority number one is being a mom.
>> is your husband okay with that?
>> he is okay with that. then a wife and then my career.
>> got it.
>> you live -- you guys live on both coasts.
>> that must not be a simple thing to do with a young son.
>> not at all. we're on a plane back and forth. when it's all your child knows, they don't know any different. he was born, and that's what we were doing. he looks at it like it's the plane, i'm going to watch movies. it's just what he is used to at it point. mroo when the child sees their parent happy, they're happy. you know?
>> yes, you're right.
>> your reality show is -- it's the third season?
>> yes, it is.
>> i mean, and you feel -- i feel like you get to know the real you. is that -- are we really seeing you?
>> i feel like when you sign up for a reality show , you know what you're signing up for, and you can't be afraid to show certain things. then reality tv is not for you. i reveal enough without going too, too far.
>> do you have editing rights? can you say i don't want this?
>> you do?
>> i do.
>> how did you get that?
>> good lawyers. good agents. good manager.
>> that's so critically important, especially when you have a child.
>> i'm sure that goes in your brain each time. is this the right choice to be making for my kid.
>> he films when he wants to, when it's fun. i don't force him to do that. if it's a day where he is not in the mood, he doesn't have to film. he is 5. it's not his job to be on a reality show and film. when it's fun, it's fun, and when he is not in the mood, he doesn't have to do it.
>> what's the biggest challenge in your life?
>> just struggling being a mom and my husband being in the nba. he is always on the road, and i'm always on the road. it makes it --
>> a long season, too.
>> it makes it very difficult, and we always have to make sure we make our marriage a priority because it's real easy to get lost in your schedule and his schedule, and before you know it, it's like a month, and it's like we haven't even seen each other.
>> that can be dangerous too, you know?
>> of course.
>> they had a good dame last night.
>> they did.
>> does that mean he is in a good mood?
>> he is in a good mood. tonight is a very happy night at the anthony household.
>> good. good. good.
>> we're glad you came to see us.
>> i love coming to see you guys.
>> tell your mom hi for us.
>> i will.
>> you can catch "lala's full court life" monday nights at