Since photographer Angela McLaughlin’s 5-year-old son, Caleb, was diagnosed with autism a year ago, the mom of four says she’s been surprised by the misconceptions and confusion about autism she has encountered.
“I can’t tell you how many people have said to me, ‘He doesn’t look like he has autism,’ or, “He makes eye contact. He can’t have autism,” McLaughlin told TODAY Parents. “I just want people to understand.”
April is Autism Awareness Month, and McLaughlin, who owns Tiny Touch Photography, is on a mission to showcase a different child each day through a series of blog posts. In the series, titled “30 Faces of Autism,” McLaughlin will post photos of a different autistic child each day throughout the month of April, both to her blog and on Facebook.
“Each feature will have images of the child that I've captured, and personal information about each child — what they like, what don't they like, what their struggles are, and what their achievements have been,” said McLaughlin, who lives in Maryland. “The first paragraph of each spotlight will address a common autism misconception, elaborate on some common autism facts, or sometimes just make something about autism known to those who aren't personally affected.”
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Among the first five children featured on McLaughlin’s blog was Julia Schad’s son, Peter. Schad says her son has taught her a great deal about perseverance, determination and acceptance, and that when she heard about the opportunity to have him included in the project, she was eager to get involved.
“Just as you and I are unique, so is every child with autism. Autism casts such a wide net from very high functioning Asperger’s to very low functioning,” said Schad. “My hope with this project is that children with autism are seen simply as children; all special and all unique. We need to be tolerant and accepting as well as be tolerated and accepted.”
“I have two missions with this project,” said McLaughlin. “One, to show the world how amazing these kids are no matter where they are on the spectrum and that they look just like everyone else…second, to show children on the spectrum that they are not alone. They struggle with elements of their life, and might feel isolated and think that no one gets them. This project will allow them to look through all 30 children and see that they all have similar struggles, and they all are unique. They are not alone in their challenges.”