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    >>> one of the victims was the temple's president. his son is with us. good morning to you and my sincere condolences.

    >> thank you, matt. good morning to you.

    >> how is your family doing? how is your community doing?

    >> i mean, we're very shook up right now. it's hard to put into words all that's happened in the past 14, 16 hours. we're at a breaking point in some ways.

    >> i know you received a phone call from your father's cell phone . that's how you kind of were alerted all this was happening. can you tell me a little about that.

    >> when the phone rang my brother was on the line saying somebody opened fire. i saw my dad's cell phone on the side, i knew he was at the temple already. he just went. just asked my wife which turban should i wear today, she picked the blue one. i saw his phone and got excited and picked it up. it was the priest who usually stands next to him at the sermons. he's the president at the temple. the priest is always there giving the sermon. the priest picked up the phone and told me specifically where are the ambulances, why aren't the ambulances here? i said where is my dad, the president? he said he's at my feet, laying on the ground leading. i was shook. how bad is he bleeding. this is all in our native tongue . how bad is he bleeding? he said so bad, it's unstoppable. at that point he said but he'll be wazzock, he'll be wazzock. he couldn't keep going after that.

    >> i know you went down to the temple. we have a shot of you. you began to pray outside. i want to mention your mother was inside that temple as well but luckily she was not harmed. i know anwar deep, one of the reasons you wanted to do this interview, you know their incredible misconceptions about sikhs in this country and a lack of understanding.

    >> there is. there's a real cultural misunderstanding. i'm not going to go so far as to say people shouldn't confuse us with muslims. that's hard to say because it's culturally insensitive. but as of now, we as americans are a melting pot . we have to understand each other's cultures, italian, german, far east chinese, bangladesh. we need to know the nuances because we live together, rub elbows next to each other.

    >> again, this is a tragedy not only for your family but community. i appreciate your time. my condolences on the loss of your father.

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updated 8/6/2012 8:04:40 AM ET 2012-08-06T12:04:40

The son of the president of the Sikh temple where six people were killed by a gunman urged Americans to better understand his culture on Monday — and said his community is "at a breaking point in some ways."

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Amardeep Kaleka, whose father, Satwant Kaleka, was killed in the suburban Milwaukee rampage, told TODAY's Matt Lauer about how he learned of the shooting.

Video: Victim’s son: Sikh community ‘shook up’ after shooting (on this page)

Kaleka had received a call from his brother when his dad’s cell phone started ringing. Though he hoped it was his father calling, it was the temple’s priest, asking why they hadn’t sent over help.

“Where are the ambulances? Why aren’t the ambulances here?” the priest kept saying.

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When he asked about his father, the priest told Kaleka his dad lay at his feet, “lying on the ground, bleeding from his back … so bad it was unstoppable.”

Kaleka’s father was one of the temple’s founding members. His mother, who was inside the temple, survived.

The suspected gunman, identified as Wade Michael Page, was killed outside the temple in a shootout with police officers.

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Temple members in Oak Creek are trying to make sense of the attack, Kaleka said.

“We’re very shook up right now," he told Lauer. "It's hard to put into words all that's happened in the past 14, 16 hours. We're at a breaking point, in some ways."

Kaleka said there’s a widespread misunderstanding about the Sikh community. While many trying to explain the culture often do it by saying that people shouldn’t confuse Sikhs with Muslims, Kaleka said he didn’t want to be that simplistic because “it’s culturally insensitive.”

Slideshow: Gunman opens fire at Sikh temple in Wisconsin (on this page)

“We, as Americans, are a melting pot of so many cultures,” he said. “We have to understand each other's cultures, whether they be Italian, Polish, German, or they be Far East Chinese or Bangladeshi. We have to understand the nuances because we live together. We rub elbows right next to each other.”

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Photos: Gunman opens fire at Sikh temple in Wisconsin

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  1. Mourners take part in a candle light vigil for the victims of the Sikh Temple of Wisconsin shooting in Milwaukee on Sunday, Aug 5. An unidentified gunman killed six people at the suburban Milwaukee temple on Sunday in a rampage that left terrified congregants hiding in closets and others texting friends outside for help. The suspect was killed outside the temple in a shootout with police officers. (Jeffrey Phelps / AP) Back to slideshow navigation
  2. People gather at a candle light vigil at Cathedral Square in downtown Milwaukee, Sunday. (Tom Lynn / Reuters) Back to slideshow navigation
  3. Members of the police, FBI, Fire Department and Bomb Squad set up at near the home of the alleged shooter on Sunday. Local and federal investigators said they are treating the shootings as a "domestic terrorism type incident." (Tasos Katopodis / AFP - Getty Images) Back to slideshow navigation
  4. A distraught women is helped to a car outside of the Sikh temple in Oak Creek, Wisconsin, Sunday. (Tom Lynn / Reuters) Back to slideshow navigation
  5. Police approach the Sikh Temple of Wisconsin in Oak Creek, Wis., where a mass shooting took place on Sunday. (Jeffrey Phelps / AP) Back to slideshow navigation
  6. A man wipes away tears outside the Sikh Temple in Oak Creek on Sunday. (Jeffrey Phelps / AP) Back to slideshow navigation
  7. A tactical officer runs to position as SWAT officers surround the Sikh Temple of Wisconsin where a gunman fired upon people before a service. The gunman was later shot dead by a police officer. (Darren Hauck / Getty Images) Back to slideshow navigation
  8. A police officer talks with bystanders outside the Sikh Temple of Wisconsin. (Darren Hauck / Getty Images) Back to slideshow navigation
  9. Bystanders looks on as SWAT officers surround the Sikh temple. (Darren Hauck / Getty Images) Back to slideshow navigation
  10. SWAT officers surround the Sikh Temple of Wisconsin. (Darren Hauck / Getty Images) Back to slideshow navigation
  11. A woman waits with others for word on a shooting the Sikh temple. (Jeffrey Phelps / AP) Back to slideshow navigation
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