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    >>> josie tate is teresa mays mother and adam mayes ' mother-in-law. she's wit us exclusively this morning. josie , good morning to you.

    >> good morning.

    >> my first question is just your reaction when you found o how this all ended last night.

    >> my first reaction was thank god that the little girls were safe, and alive, and well. and then my second reaction was panic, scared for my daughter, who was manipulatednd brainwashed and coerce d and physically abused over the last 11 years by adam .

    >> i know your daughter, of cour, is charged in with connection with this crime. you just mentioned what you feel adam mayes ' responsibility is for that. can you tells a littl bit more about how that relationip went on? what your relationship with your daughter was when she married adam mayes ?

    >> when she married adam , he made her cut off all ties with all of her family adam would not even allow teresa to attend her father's funeral. adam was a control freak . even at the age of 10 years old, adam controlled his mom and dad , you know. it was like he ruled the roost.

    >> josie , one of the big questions here, of course, is why? why he would have killed jo ann bain and her older daughter and abcted the two little girls. doou have anything to shed light on that question? there's many reasons that's run through my mind. but i think really that maybe he doneto have possession of the two children, that he claimed were his biological children.

    >> do you believe that?

    >> do i believe that they were his children?

    >> yes.

    >> no. they were not his children.

    >> what do you think will happen to your daughter now? as you mentioned, she's been chged withirst degree murder in this case.

    >> i honestly don't know.

    >> is it difficult for you to know that, according to police, she was involved, that she drove these women back down to mississippi, and that even after the bodies were buried in the backyard, she failed to call police?

    >> yes, that is difficult to accept. but at the same time, know that she was scared of adam . i know that she was coerced, and manipulated, and forced to do the things that she did.

    >> josie tate i know these are difficult times for you. we appreciate your perspective this morning. thank you for being

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updated 5/11/2012 8:41:45 AM ET 2012-05-11T12:41:45

The mother-in-law of Mississippi fugitive Adam Mayes said Friday on TODAY that she believes her daughter was a pawn in an abduction ordeal that resulted in the deaths of two women and the kidnapping of two young girls.

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Mayes fatally shot himself Thursday after a wide-scale manhunt by police.

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Alexandria Bain, 12, and her sister, Kyliyah Bain, 8, were found alive by units of the Mississippi Highway Patrol in a wooded area nearby Mayes’ home in Union County, Miss. As police closed in, Mayes, 35, put a gun to his head and pulled the trigger. Mayes is alleged to have killed the girls’ mother, Jo Ann Bain, and her eldest daughter, Adrienne, and buried them in the backyard of his mobile home. He may have believed the two younger girls were his biological children.

Josephine Tate is the mother of Mayes’ wife, Teresa, 30, who has been charged with especially aggravated kidnapping. Police claim she witnessed Adam kill Jo Ann Bain and her daughter in their home in Tennessee. She then allegedly helped transport the dead bodies and the two young girls to the Mayes’ home in Mississippi, where Adam reportedly buried them, according to the warrants for her arrest.

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“My first reaction was thank God that the little girls were safe and alive and well,’’ Tate told TODAY Friday. “Then my second reaction was panic, scared for my daughter who was manipulated and brainwashed and coerced and physically abused over the last 11 years by Adam.’’

Mayes forced Teresa to become estranged from her family after marrying her, Tate said.

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“When she married Adam, he made her cut off all ties with all of her family,’’ Tate told Savannah Guthrie. “Adam would not even allow Theresa to attend her father’s funeral. Adam was a control freak, even at the age of 10 years old. Adam controlled his mom and dad. It was like he ruled the roost.’’

Neighbors of the Bain family said Mayes would tell people that he was the father of Alexandria and Kyliyah.

“Do I believe that they were his children?" Tate said. "No, they were not his children.’’

Tate said the charges against her daughter — and allegations she did not contact police after witnessing the murders — are difficult to accept.

“At the same time, I know that she was scared of Adam,’’ Tate said. “I know that she was coerced and manipulated and forced to do the things that she did.’’

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