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    >> this half hour with more on the schwarzenegger scandal and the son he fathered with their maid. miguel is in los angeles . good morning to you.

    >> meredith, good morning. arnold schwarzenegger has acknowledged his infidelity and that he fathered a son only in a written statement. they used to be california's first family, arnold schwarzenegger , maria shriver , and their four children. but this week another woman and another child entered the picture. she's mildred baena , housekeeper for schwarzenegger and shriver for 20 years. the boy is the former governor's secret son, now 13 years old.

    >> who a parent is affects a child 's identity. le so if this child for the first time is finding out who his father is, it's really going to change how he experiences himself.

    >> reporter: tmz has obtained pictures with schwarzenegger and baena . supposely he's supported both she and her son from the start. the former governor lives with shriverer and their children in this mansion. baena and her son lived in this much more modest $268,000 home some 100 miles away . the city of bakersfield is in brentwood.

    >> it be very common for this child to look over to his half siblings and say why did they get to live in a house with their father? why did they get to live this particular kind of lifestyle?

    >> reporter: outside the bakersfield home, plenty of media, but no sign of former governor's son or the boy's mother. neighbors here say they've seen the teenager but never schwarzenegger .

    >> the boy, he is -- he seems very well liked. he's very, very polite.

    >> hasta la vista , baby.

    >> reporter: he's a business tycoon. his net worth estimated at more than $200 million. by all accounts they lead a lave lavish lifestyle but you won't find his name on the boy's birth certificate . it's unclear how much he financially supports them.

    >> i think the support order will provide for the child at a level that will be consistent with the children of maria shriver and of arnold schwarzenegger .

    >> reporter: as governor arnold schwarzenegger often spoke of family values , but for now he shared very little about the son he secretly faerd. schwarzenegger 's son with baena is 13 years old, and according to his birth certificate , he was born five days after the son of maria shriver and schwarzenegger 's son christopher. it's unclear what kind of relationship the children have with one another. meredith?

    >> thank you very much. lynn goldman is a family and law attorney. good morning to both ow you. lynn, if i could start with you, in schwarzenegger 's public statement, he referred to the birth of his son with his housekeeper as an event. when i heard that, i thought that's a very cold way to put what happened in his life as an event. but from a purely legal point of view, what is his responsibility when it comes to this?

    >> the interesting thing is every case is fact-specific. it depends on the facts. she did not list him as the father. under california law , if you're going to challenge paternity, you've got to do it within two years. and the child was born to an intact marriage. but as the facts are now known, apparently her husband left her right after the child was born, so is that an intact marriage or not? and whether north he's ever going to assert paternity because the child had a father, a father that she was married to.

    >> but is this boy entitled to any of arnold 's estate simply because he's his biological son?

    >> no. that would be a state question but probably not. children are not automatically entitlet ltled to the estate.

    >> could he cut that off if he wanted to?

    >> let me tell you what i know. i don't know, but i think. i'm sure there was some kind of a contract that he signed with the mother a which prevent heard from coming forward all these years while he was running for governor. so there's probably something in there that requires certain moneys to be paid. whether or not she could ever get a separate child support order, i don't thing so, but i bet you there's a contract and i bet he's living up to it.

    >> we've been talking about the financial and legal issues here, but let's talk about the emotional issues for this boy who was 13, going on 14 years of age. we don't know what he knows at this point. he may be being sheltered. he may not be. obviously he's going to be con confused. what is the emotional impact going to be on him?

    >> i think these are very important issues that we have to o talk about because this boy is probably going to be confused. i'm almost 100% sure that no one has prepared him for this day, and being thrown out into the world as the son of someone like arnold schwarzenegger is a big deal . it has a big impact . this child probably has a life that's contained and safe, and he's well liked, and he's polite, as they say, and now all of a sudden he's got a spotlight on him. there's going to be a lot of feelings, a lot of anger, a lot of disappointment, and a lot of confusion for him.

    >> eventually they're going reveal his face. how do you help this boy prevent the kind of scarring that you're referring to?

    >> i think the most important thing is the parents are on the same page, that the mother is aware of what the impacts are going to be on her son and get him to be able to talk to somebody and be able to see what role he's going to play in the life of arnold and his current family and how to integrate, if there's going to be an integration. these siblings now have a step brother. how they go forward is going to be very important.

    >> if arnold were to request custody from the mother, does he have a leg to stand on?

    >> under the law as i read it, i don't think so. the man who's the father is on the birth certificate . by the way, i don't know why this woman has a facebook page with the boy's face on it because as the doctor correctly points out, you don't want to do it. and she's done it. so i don't think he's going to go for custody and i don't think there's going to be an integration with the family. what about the other four kids, maria's children?

    >> it's certainly a sad story. thank you so much. charles sophy, thank you.

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updated 5/19/2011 10:13:14 AM ET 2011-05-19T14:13:14

The middle-aged woman, her husband and her son became perfect neighbors after they arrived a year ago on a quiet suburban Bakersfield, Calif., cul-de-sac, residents recalled.

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But the seemingly idyllic existence came to a screeching halt this week as the state's former governor and Hollywood icon Arnold Schwarzenegger confirmed that he had fathered a child out of wedlock — and the attention homed in on former housekeeper Mildred Patricia Baena and her 13-year-old son.

As TV satellite trucks gridlocked the block and spilled over to an adjacent street, residents sat in their homes, stunned. Some worried about the effect the news would have on the polite teen who they say often walked a white poodle named Sugar through the neighborhood when he wasn't swimming in his backyard pool or playing basketball.

"We just want this child to be protected as much as possible. We've all made mistakes and to totally destroy a child's life over that would not be fair," said Marilyn Steelman, who lives next door.

The consequences for the teen boy of this week's public revelations could be huge, two mental health professionals said Thursday on NBC's TODAY.

"Who a parent is affects a child's identity," psychotherapist Robi Ludwig said. "So if this child for the first time is finding out who his father is, it's really going to change how he experiences himself."

Noting that Schwarzenegger and Baena's son is likely to be "confused," Los Angeles-based child psychologist Dr. Charles Sophy told TODAY, "I'm almost 100 percent sure that no one has prepared him for this day, and being thrown out into the world as the son of someone like Arnold Schwarzenegger is a big deal. It has a big impact."

"This child probably has a life that's contained and safe, and he's well-liked, and he's polite, as they say, and now all of a sudden he's got a spotlight on him," Sophy continued. "There's going to be a lot of feelings, a lot of anger, a lot of disappointment, and a lot of confusion for him."

Two lives
Baena and her family have been able to escape the glare of the spotlight for the time being, as reporters said they apparently left just ahead of the horde that descended on their neighborhood.

Residents said the family was friendly and like other homeowners on the block of fashionable houses with red-tiled roofs and two- and three-car garages, they kept up their $268,000 house and its neatly trimmed lawn and palm trees.

While the boy was a fixture in the neighborhood, residents say, they rarely saw his mother until she retired 2 1/2 months ago. Until then, she told them, she had been working for Schwarzenegger's family and had kept an apartment near Schwarzenegger's $11.5 million Los Angeles home, 100 miles away.

That physical distance between his mother — and his half-siblings — could fuel the emotional turmoil, Ludwig said.

"It would be very common for this child to look over to his half-siblings and say, 'Why did they get to live in a house with their father? Why did they get to live this particular kind of lifestyle?'" she told TODAY.

Beyond politics and Hollywood, Schwarzenegger is a business tycoon, with his net worth estimated at more than $200 million. By all accounts he and his family with wife Maria Shriver lead a lavish lifestyle, though it's unclear how much he financially supports Baena and their son.

The Schwarzenegger scandal exploded into public view on Monday when the former movie star confirmed to the Los Angeles Times that he had fathered a child out of wedlock years ago and that Shriver, a prominent TV journalist until she put her career on hold after her husband was elected governor, never knew until this year.

Since then Schwarzenegger has vanished and his office has declined to discuss the matter further.

Father-son resemblance
Baena's adult daughter, Jacqueline Rozo, told The Associated Press her 50-year-old mother had worked for the former governor until recently but would not comment further.

A photo of the boy posted on Baena's MySpace page shows a fairly strong resemblance to Schwarzenegger, particularly when the former governor and movie star was younger.

"If I saw him or his picture, I would see the resemblance," neighbor Steelman said.

The birth certificate for Baena's son also shows he was born the same week as the youngest of Schwarzenegger's and Shriver's four children. It lists Baena's ex-husband as the father and says Baena is originally from Guatemala.

Charlene Powers, a real estate agent who represented the home's sellers, said she was told it was being purchased for an employee of Schwarzenegger's and that he was helping with the down payment. Property records show Baena took a loan of $219,224 to buy the $268,000 house.

She is listed on the deed as a single woman, although neighbors say she and her son lived there with a man they thought was her husband.

When the family moved in, Steelman said, Baena said she was planning to retire soon.

The Times has not named the mother of Schwarzenegger's child but quoted her Monday as saying she retired in January after working for Schwarzenegger and his family for 20 years.

'He's embarrassed'
Shriver, who has not discussed the matter since issuing a brief statement Monday, made a quick walk-on appearance this week at a taping of one of Oprah Winfrey's final shows that is to air Tuesday. There, she told the talk show host that she had given her "love, support, wisdom and most of all the truth."

A person familiar with the scandal said it has left Schwarzenegger humbled and embarrassed.

"It's been very, very hard for him," said the individual, who requested anonymity out of respect for the family's privacy. "He's embarrassed. He's not focused on what steps he needs to take for himself, but the steps he needs to take for his family."

Video: Schwarzenegger hopes to regain family’s trust

As for next steps, Sophy said on TODAY that it's important that the boy's parents "are on the same page, that the mother is aware of what the impacts are going to be on her son and get him to be able to talk to somebody and be able to see what role he's going to play in the life of Arnold and his current family and how to integrate, if there's going to be an integration."

The scandal has also returned to the public's attention the numerous allegations made over the years that Schwarzenegger is a womanizer.

It has also threatened to bring forth more women. On Wednesday, Los Angeles attorney Gloria Allred confirmed she is representing Gigi Goyette, a former child actress who has said she had annual trysts with Schwarzenegger at a bodybuilding competition he sponsored in Ohio.

"I can confirm that I do represent Gigi Goyette," Allred said in an email. "We have no comment at this time and we will also have no comment tomorrow."

Shortly before Schwarzenegger was elected governor in 2003, the Times reported allegations from more than a dozen women who said he had groped them or made unwanted advances. He apologized at the time for having behaved badly in his younger years.

Schwarzenegger biographer Joe Mathews said the public shouldn't have been all that surprised by this week's revelations.

Persistent rumors
There had been rumors on the political circuit for years of a Schwarzenegger out-of-wedlock child, Mathews said, although the accounts could not be verified until now. The author of the 2006 book, "The People's Machine: Arnold Schwarzenegger and the Rise of Blockbuster Democracy," also noted that both Schwarzenegger and Shriver were careful to parse their words when they addressed the womanizing allegations in 2003, never issuing an outright denial.

"She didn't come out and defend him and say he's a faithful, great husband," he said of Shriver's defense of her husband. "She said he's a person who is really smart and really wants to do this job and has a lot to offer California."

PhotoBlog: Arnold Schwarzenegger and Maria Shriver in happier times

Perhaps more telling, as early as 1999, Mathews said, Schwarzenegger, who was then considering a run for governor, called aides together in Los Angeles and, rather than discuss possible political positions, railed against the impeachment of President Bill Clinton for his sexual liaison with Monica Lewinsky. If that was the way politicians' personal lives were exposed, Schwarzenegger told them, he might not seek office.

Since leaving the governor's office earlier this year, Schwarzenegger has indicated some interest in continuing in politics, perhaps becoming a spokesman for environmental causes, including green energy development, one of the issues he worked hardest for as governor. Mathews noted that Schwarzenegger hasn't flatly ruled out a run for U.S. Senate either, although he speculated it would be hard for him to get elected now.

The former star has also made it clear he wants to return to Hollywood. He recently announced plans to play himself in an animated TV show called "The Governator" and is scheduled to begin filming this summer on "Cry Macho," a film drama in which he would play a horse trainer. The former world bodybuilding champion is also in negotiations to reprise what is arguably his most popular role, as the relentless killer cyborg in the "Terminator" films.

NBC News and The Associated Press contributed to this report.

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