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    NATALIE MORALES, anchor: This morning on TODAY'S BEAUTY , embracing your curly hair . Whether your locks are wavy or corkscrew, girls with curls, you know, they face a world of hair challenges. Lorraine Massey Salons are strictly for those coping with the

    curl. And her latest book is "The Curly Girl: The Handbook." Lorraine , good morning.

    Ms. LORRAINE MASSEY: Good morning. Thanks for having me.

    MORALES: I know you've made this your mission, all your salons are for women with curly hair .

    Ms. MASSEY: Yes.

    MORALES: Why is it so important to get the right cut for curly hair ?

    Ms. MASSEY: Well, it's -- first of all, it's important for them to understand that they have curly hair and trust their hair.

    MORALES: Right.

    Ms. MASSEY: But a lot of their biggest fears are the frizz and then the haircut is the next biggest thing, too, because we tend to cut too much off; when the hair's wet it contracts and expands...

    MORALES: Mm-hmm.

    Ms. MASSEY: ...so dramatically that you'll see today when I show you...

    MORALES: You're going to show us some of the tips of the trade here.

    Ms. MASSEY: Yes.

    MORALES: And let's start here with the beautiful little Greta . And she has, you know, the curly hair , but you've got one side that you've worked already. This side is sort of dealing with the frizz.

    Ms. MASSEY: Yes.

    MORALES: What exactly is the frizz?

    Ms. MASSEY: Well, frizz -- all frizz is is a curl waiting to happen.

    MORALES: Right.

    Ms. MASSEY: It's very dehydrated. When you use shampoos and detergents it's almost like saying, 'I'm thirsty, but I'm going to drink salt water,' you're not going to do that. With curly hair , you want to use as much moisture as possible, I cannot stress.

    MORALES: Mm-hmm.

    Ms. MASSEY: Wherever there's a frizz, there's a curl begging for moisture.

    MORALES: Right.

    Ms. MASSEY: So what I'm going to do is you're going to take your favorite conditioner, get some spring water, half and half, make it into a milky substance.

    MORALES: Mm-hmm.

    Ms. MASSEY: Then all you're going to do is -- for the curly girl on the go, for the teen curly girl, we call this spot cleansing.

    MORALES: Mm-hmm.

    Ms. MASSEY: So if you really don't have that much time, this will impact your frizz very, very quickly. So you can see, we just kind of rolled up this little curl so you get the...

    MORALES: Depending -- so you get a little more -- yeah.

    Ms. MASSEY: Yes. You just wrap it around your little finger , clip it and a few more seconds.

    MORALES: And then now when it dries, it'll dry a little bit more ...

    Ms. MASSEY: Yeah.

    MORALES: ...conditioned and soft like this.

    Ms. MASSEY: Yeah. But it combat -- it combats that frizz very, very, very quickly, as you can see.

    MORALES: Mm-hmm. And some shampoos are actually not good for the curly hair , right?

    Ms. MASSEY: Shampoo is sodium laureth sulfate and it really strips curly hair of all of it -- all of its moisture, and we don't have any moisture to strip to begin with.

    MORALES: Yeah, yeah. All right.

    Ms. MASSEY: So...

    MORALES: OK. Let's move on over here because we've got gorgeous Mona . Has this gorgeous long, long beautiful curly hair .

    Ms. MASSEY: Yes.

    MORALES: However, you'll notice around the roots it gets a little flat, right?

    Ms. MASSEY: Flat.

    MORALES: So what do you do to lift that?

    Ms. MASSEY: So what you do -- this could be a second-day trick, and a lot of girls, that's their biggest complaint, 'My second-day curl.' So to get lift at the root, all you have to do is clips, literally clips.

    MORALES: Uh-huh .

    Ms. MASSEY: Put a little bit of gel on the clip itself and go right to the root and lift it.

    MORALES: OK.

    Ms. MASSEY: Five minutes and you've got a lovely little root lift. Also you...

    MORALES: Let's see if we can get a real close-up there so that we can see what you're doing with the root lift.

    Ms. MASSEY: So clip and root. And you can leave that just for five minutes, let it dry and you'll have a lovely, lovely lift at the root.

    MORALES: OK.

    Ms. MASSEY: This is great for straight hair, too, so this is not just for curly hair ...

    MORALES: Mm-hmm.

    Ms. MASSEY: ...this is also for straight hair.

    MORALES: So for those of us who have straighter hair, but we do get that flatness there, you can do the same thing.

    Ms. MASSEY: It's great. It's really great.

    MORALES: That's good. Wonderful.

    Ms. MASSEY: And it releases the hair of its own weight during the drying process.

    MORALES: OK. Nice job. Let's move on over to Kim , and she's actually going to let you cut her hair here live on the -- so you're going to actually cut just the bangs, right?

    Ms. MASSEY: Yes, that's right.

    MORALES: And important to do this when the hair is dry, why?

    Ms. MASSEY: Yes. Because look at how long her hair appears when it's wet. Don't know if you can get that.

    MORALES: OK.

    Ms. MASSEY: But it shrinks almost six inches. So it's better to cut the hair as you see it, right just before the twist in the curl.

    MORALES: Mm-hmm.

    Ms. MASSEY: And wherever you see it is -- don't make it more complicated than it is.

    MORALES: And even though you're cutting her hair here, I mean this is something you can do yourself at home.

    Ms. MASSEY: Yeah. And this is in the book.

    MORALES: Just cut with the curl.

    Ms. MASSEY: This is a little quick trim. Yeah. See? Nice little bang trim.

    MORALES: Just cut away the little ...

    Ms. MASSEY: And a little fluff. When you fluff curly hair , make sure you do it from underneath, otherwise you create lots and lots of frizz.

    MORALES: Mm-hmm. All right. Well, there are a lot more pointers in the book, I should mention.

    Ms. MASSEY: That's right .

    MORALES: So again, the book is called " The Curly Girl ." Lorraine Massey and ladies, thank you so much for being here. Appreciate it. Thank you.

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updated 1/22/2011 1:54:11 PM ET 2011-01-22T18:54:11

Whether yours are wavy or corkscrew, girls with curls know that they face a whole other set of hair challenges than their straight-haired sisters.

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Lorraine Massey knows this — her salons are strictly for those with curly hair. Her new book, “Curly Girl: The Handbook,” covers everything from frizz to self trims.

Read an excerpt below about how you should treat your curly hair.

Cleansing
There are two parts to the cleansing routine for all curls: cleansing your scalp and hair and then conditioning your hair. How often you cleanse and condition depends on your hair and where you are in the process. If you’re weaning yourself off shampoo, you may want to stay on your usual cleansing schedule, just replacing your regular shampoo with a sulfate-free product or a botanical conditioner. You might not like a bubble-free diet, but your hair will love it. Once your hair becomes more hydrated and healthy, you will probably cleanse less often and just wet your hair and go right to the conditioning step for your curl type. It’s also important to allow the hair to rest at times and not get locked into a scheduled routine of overcleansing. I know wavy types who only wash their hair every three to four days.

Book cover: "Curly Girl: The Handbook"

If you are new to this curly girl approach to hair care, the amounts of product you use will change as your hair becomes healthier. For example, early on you may need to use lots of conditioner because your hair is dry and thirsty, then, as your hair gets hydrated, you’ll use less. Because your curls’ moods are so affected by weather and climate, you may have to adjust the amount of product you use when you travel or as the seasons change.

Generally, the tighter or drier the curl, the more botanical conditioner you need. Hair that’s been damaged by blow-frying, coloring, or chemical straightening absorbs conditioner quickly and needs more. Experiment with different amounts to figure out what’s best for your hair, but err on the side of more conditioner rather than less.

Conditioning
For most curl types, I suggest leaving some or all of your conditioner in your hair. I know this sounds unorthodox, especially since we’re so conditioned — ahem! — to rinsing thoroughly for fear that product will weigh our hair down. But curly hair needs that extra moisture to stay hydrated and frizz-free, and the word greasy is almost never relevant to a curly girl. Others worry that leaving conditioner in will make your hair crunchy or sticky, but that won’t happen with the right product (see chapter 8, page 79, for choosing a conditioner). In fact, a favorite trick of girls with a high frizz factor and dense, thick curls is to not rinse out any conditioner at all. Why? Because when you squeeze out excess water with a paper towel or microfiber towel (see photo, right), it’s like rinsing — the hair naturally absorbs the conditioner it needs to stay hydrated and releases what it doesn’t.

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In the conditioning sections for each type of curl, I suggest gliding conditioner downward through your hair with your fingers. If you have longer hair, follow this step by scrunching the same section of hair upward toward the scalp. This opposite motion will encourage and reintroduce your intrinsic curl pattern to your hair.

I often use the words “squeeze-quench” to describe the process of squeezing hair with conditioner in an upward motion toward the scalp. It usually releases a milky residue of excess water and conditioner. A squishy sound and hair that feels as viscous as wet seaweed means that “hydration penetration” has been accomplished.

Scrunching
Never dry curls with a conventional towel, because it will absorb too much moisture and its harsh fabric will ruffle the sensitive hair cuticle, causing frizz. Instead, I suggest using a paper towel, an old cotton T-shirt, or a microfiber towel. Though I mention these three options throughout the book, you can use anything smooth and absorbent, like a pillowcase or baby’s burp cloth. Gently rotate the fabric as you blot the hair. Just like blotting a sweater in a towel after washing, precious hair fibers need the same gentle care. “Scrunch-squeeze” is how I describe the upward scrunching motion toward the scalp that you make with a microfiber towel to absorb extra moisture.

Styling
Gel is an important part of every curly girl’s routine because it gives definitive hold but is light to the touch. As your hair begins to dry and the gel hardens, don’t be alarmed by the crystallized curl cast, or “gel cast.” This helps hold the natural curl formation until the hair dries, protecting it from outside elements like wind and humidity. Once hair is completely dry, you can dissolve and release the gel cast by tilting your head forward and gently scrunching hair upward toward the scalp. The result will be soft, defined, touchable curls. It’s important to use a gel that’s alcohol- and silicone-free, as it lives in your hair for 2 to 3 days.

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Note: For each type of curl in the book, I give an approximate time for how long it will take to cleanse and style. This period will get shorter as hair gets healthier and more hydrated.

Simply being curly is not enough. Beautiful, healthy hair is the result of first accepting your curls for their natural tendencies, then working with them, and being really consistent in your daily care routine. Remember, you are the custodian of that little garden atop your head! It will reflect the care that you give it.

Excerpted from the book "Curly Girl: The Handbook" by Lorraine Massey. Copyright © 2011 by Workman Publishing. All rights reserved.

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