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    >>> members. nbc's peter alexander is outside the " late show " studio with more. peter, good morning.

    >> natalie, good morning. letterman apologized to his wife and to his staff, but not before making fun of himself. and if you think that's the end of this story, well, think again. in fact, this morning, t"the new york times" is reporting that the lawyer for joe halderman, the man accused in this extortion plot, has threatened to provide evidence that letterman sexually harassed members of his staff, and he says he's willing to show that evidence in court.

    >> i got into the car this morning and the navigation lady wasn't speaking to me.

    >> reporter: back in front of the cameras for the first time since his embarrassing office sex scandal exploded last week, david letterman had himself to thank for all that new material.

    >> things are still pretty bad. there's a possibility that i'll be the first talk show host impeached, so. it's fall here in new york city , and i spent the whole weekend raking my hate mail. cold, cold, too. i mean, it's chilly outside my house, chilly inside my house.

    >> reporter: on monday night, the " late show " host, clearly wounded by the impact his revelations about having sex with co-workers have had on his employees, blended his comedy with contrition.

    >> when you're blackmailed, it's a crime and you're a victim. it did not occur to me last week when i was discussing having had sex with the women who worked on this show that then what would happen is reporters and newspaper people and radio and tv would start hounding the staff and saying, what do you say? are you? and this and that. it was very, very unpleasant. and i would just like to set the record straight -- no, i'm not having sex with these women. those episodes are in the past. my thanks to the staff for, once again, putting up with something stupid i've gotten myself involved in.

    >> reporter: then, letterman apologized to his wife, a former staffer on the show, regina lasko.

    >> she has been horribly hurt by my behavior. and when something happens like that, if you hurt a person and it's your responsibility, you try to fix it. and at that point, there's only two things that can happen. either you're going to make some progress and get it fixed or you're going to fall short and perhaps not get it fixed. so, let me tell you, folks, i've got my work cut out for me.

    >> reporter: was it a genuine apology or another well-crafted maneuver to get ahead of the story? suspended cbs news producer joe halderman who prosecutors say was in debt and desperate when he allegedly tried to extort $2 million from letterman, still isn't speaking, but his lawyer was already questioning letterman's credibility and truthfulness monday on "today."

    >> he's a master at manipulating audiences. that's what he does for a living. so, to think that david letterman gave the entire story and there's nothing more to be said is simply wrong.

    >> the defense in this case is trying to muddy the waters, because everyone knows that the defendant and letterman did not get along. what matters is one juror thinking to himself or herself, you know what, i am not so sure letterman's the victim. i'm going to acquit this guy, halderman.

    >> reporter: one published report suggests letterman held a personal grudge against halderman, who until recently was living with steph ni birkitt, one of letterman's assistants, and according to "the new york times," one of letterman's past lovers, who frequently appeared on letterman's on-air sketches. the "ap" reports that a new york city law enforcement official says halderman copied birkitt's diary, which contained details of her affair with letterman and tried to use it as blackmail. facing 15 years, if convicted, of attempted grand larceny , halderman is currently out on bail. this week, letterman's past girlfriend and former head writer on the show, merrill markoe , responded to the sex scandal on her blog with a hint of humor, writing "dave promised me many times that i was the only woman he would ever cheat on."

    >> let's look at the news. first of all, bill clinton said -- no. good news for south carolina governor mark sanford , because he -- how about that eliot spitzer ? would you take a look at --

    >> reporter: after what at least one staff member called a strange day at the office, letterman hopes his audience has the last laugh.

    >> by the way, the going price for a screenplay based on this show right here, $3 million.

    >> $3 million.

updated 10/6/2009 5:30:10 AM ET 2009-10-06T09:30:10

David Letterman, days after revealing on air that he'd been sexually involved with women from his television program, apologized to his wife on Monday's "Late Show," saying she had been "horribly hurt by my behavior" and stating flat-out those affairs "are in the past."

The CBS late-night host, building on Thursday's startling confessional , vowed to repair his relationship with his wife, Regina Lasko, whom he married in March after a years-long courtship.

"Let me tell you folks, I got my work cut out for me," he said ruefully.

As Letterman faced Monday's show, and the shows that will come after, it was clear that how he deals with his messy situation could prove to be a defining chapter in his long TV career. And, ironically, it could clinch his recent ratings victory in late-night TV.

Letterman’s apology to his wife and staff members meant another big night in the Nielsen ratings for the late-night talk-show host.

The Nielsen Co.’s overnight measurement of the nation’s 56 biggest markets netted Letterman’s “Late Show” on CBS a 4.2 rating — higher than anything rival NBC had in prime-time.

Nielsen didn’t immediately have an estimate of the size of Letterman’s audience.

'Chilly INSIDE my house'
His dilemma was Topic A on the show as he mixed wisecracks with contrition in a virtuoso balancing act. Noting the cool fall weather, he reported, "It's chilly outside my house; chilly INSIDE my house."

Then he cautioned the audience, "This is only Phase 1 of the scandal. Phase 2: Next week I go on 'Oprah' and sob."

A bit later, guest Steve Martin gave Letterman his kidding consolation: "It proves that you're a human being. And we weren't really that sure before."

Martin Short, making an unannounced appearance, playfully plopped himself in Martin's lap.

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"You spend one more minute on his lap, you're gonna get blackmailed," Letterman quipped.

Monday's show was the first Letterman had taped since Thursday, when he disclosed that he had had sexual relationships with women who worked for him and said that he had been the victim of a $2 million blackmail threat.

Video: Who is Letterman's alleged blackmailer?

During the hour, he also apologized to his staff, which, he said, had been subjected to "being browbeaten and humiliated" by reporters since his revelations.

"My thanks to the staff for, once again, putting up with something stupid I've gotten myself involved in," he said.

Letterman, 62, began dating Lasko in 1986, and they have a son, Harry, who was born in November 2003. All the affairs took place before Letterman's marriage, said Tom Keaney, spokesman for Letterman's production company, Worldwide Pants.

Letterman arrived on stage Monday to applause and cheers from his studio audience. After drinking it in, he grinned sheepishly and inquired, with a mock stammer, "Did your, did your weekend just fly by?"

After pausing for the audience’s sympathetic laughter, he went on: “I mean, I’ll be honest with you folks — right now, I would give anything to be hiking on the Appalachian Trail.”

He later joked, "I got into the car this morning, and the navigation lady wasn't speaking to me. Ouch."

In a more somber display, Letterman voiced his mea culpas. Regarding his wife, he said that, "if you hurt a person and it's your responsibility, you try to fix it."

Letterman has offered no specifics about how many women he had sex with.

But the CBS producer accused of blackmailing Letterman used pages from a former assistant's diary that described an affair with the "Late Show" host, a law enforcement official said Monday. The ex-assistant, Stephanie Birkitt, went to live with CBS News producer Robert Halderman, who found her diary describing her relationship with Letterman and used it to help blackmail him, the law enforcement official said Monday on the condition of anonymity because the investigation was ongoing.

Halderman, a producer for the true-crime TV show "48 Hours Mystery," pleaded not guilty last week to extortion charges.

The flood of attention on Letterman was inevitable, and the way he initially dealt with this maelstrom recalled an embarrassing dilemma for another star in 1995.

For a celebrity the caliber of Hugh Grant, publicity — including speculation of career suicide — was unavoidable when he was arrested with a prostitute on Hollywood’s Sunset Strip 14 years ago. But then he retreated to NBC’s “The Tonight Show” to try to explain.

Host Jay Leno wasted no time before asking an instant classic of a question: “What the hell were you thinking?!”

Grant’s appearance provided him with some needed image rehab. It also vaulted ratings runner-up “Tonight” past Letterman’s “Late Show,” a leadership position Leno held through his retirement from late night earlier this year.

Since then, Letterman has reclaimed a ratings edge over new “Tonight” host Conan O’Brien.

And now he may have truly sealed the deal. With his masterful monologue last Thursday, Letterman single-handedly gave a TV performance to equal the Jay-and-Hugh moment. Implicit in everything he said about his own behavior was the unspoken question: “What the hell was I thinking?”

It could be that Letterman’s carefully calibrated act of self-disclosure has put him in the best spot possible to weather the situation — and even to milk it. Beloved by viewers and critics for decades, he has abruptly freshened the enduring Letterman brand and demonstrated he still has the ability to surprise even fans who thought they knew him well.

'Manly'
Indeed, a legendary late-night host has nothing but praise for Letterman’s skill at crisis management.

“To me, it seems Dave Letterman’s handling of this is impeccable,” Dick Cavett said in an e-mail. “Brave, direct, and — dare I say it? — manly. He has set a real example here of exactly how to behave when assaulted in such a sleazy operation.”

It isn’t the first time Letterman has shown finesse in managing a firestorm.

In June, he had a run-in with former Alaska Gov. Sarah Palin over jokes made at the expense of her teenage daughter. He emerged from a tumultuous few days of protests and demands for his dismissal with a ratings jolt. And thanks to the dumb-luck timing of the flap, he also handily upstaged his much-hyped NBC rival just as O’Brien was taking over as “Tonight” host.

Letterman apologized to Palin and her family in what became another one of his memorable performances. But he has never stopped making jokes at Palin’s expense.

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