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• Don't Ask Me Why the Relationship Failed

  Published: July 28, 2007, 12:31 am

  Tags: Liar, Failed Marriage, Denial, Everquest, Cheating, Failed Relationship, Advice, Responsibility

  I was looking at other relationship blogs and searching for something to understand why my ex is inly interested in discussing why our relationship failed. I have not found anything yet, but I think his desire to talk about why is his excuse to place blame on me rather than accept his own failure. To understand this, I have to give some

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• Build a New Self. Do Not Let Rejection Rule.

  Published: July 30, 2007, 12:27 am

  Tags: Self Esteem, Leaving Spouse, Divorced, Separated, Reconciliation, Identity, Failed Relationship, Advice, Acceptance, Separation, Survival

  not fixating on a failed relationship. Instead, I regularly took steps that eventually lead me to believing in a new self-image and future of possibilities.It's not be easy to take the first few steps back into the world without a significant other, but it is possible to create a new direction. Over time, accepting a new reality may lead to

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• A Time To Rediscover Yourself

  Published: July 31, 2007, 4:19 pm

  Tags: Self Help, Self Esteem, Empowerment, Goals, Finances, Divorce Communication, Single Mom, Failed Relationship, Advice, Acceptance, Separation, Relationship

  that if you have multiple relationships, then you carry your experiences from one relationship to next. I have though about this advice and realized I do not want to relive the relationship with my ex. For this reason, I delayed going into other relationships until I knew what I wanted in my life and understood the behaviors I did not want

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• I Don't Tolerate Girlfriends on the Side

  Published: August 1, 2007, 3:50 pm

  Tags: Lying, Leaving Spouse, Empowerment, Divorce, Separated, Reconciliation, Failed Relationship, Advice, Separation, Responsibility, Survival, Relationship

  In late 2006 when I found out that my ex had a girlfriend while still married to me, I told my ex that I would not compete for him. I gave an ultimatum of the girlfriend goes or I go. At first he tried to convince me the girlfriend was out. Then he told me he needed to check on her and make sure she was okay--telling me he would then only keep

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• Blind and Happy in a One-sided Marriage? Never Again.

  Published: August 3, 2007, 2:50 am

  Tags: Self Help, Leaving Spouse, Divorced, Failed Marriage, Denial, Failed Relationship, Advice, Separation

  schedule wasslow. In future relationships, I won't be with anyone who can't pull an equalamount of the weight in the relationship. I also refuse to be someone's mommy.I have two babies of my own thank you.My ex is the one who lost out though. When he gets lost taking care of himselfand has the nerve to call me for advice, I won't be there to

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• I Won't Rescue A Non-Existent Relationship

  Published: August 9, 2007, 11:09 pm

  Tags: Everquest, Reconciliation, Cheat, Separation, Divorced, Divorce, Denial, Failed Marriage, Liar, Separated, Cheating, Failed Relationship, Advice, Girlfriend, Responsibility

  I spent time looking for advice and ideas such as those contained in this article to improve my marriage, but found out that all the advice had underlying assumptions. For examples, relationship advice makes sense if you believe you marriage is salvageable, but not if your choice is salvage yourself or salvage your relationship. Or it does

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• You Praise Him When You Love Him; You Curse Him When He

  Published: August 29, 2007, 11:24 am

  Tags: Relationship Advice, About Women

  When lovers are blinded by relationship, this is one of the common things that may happen. It really amazed me how wildly and blindly in love can today teens be in and they can do anything, almost anything to express their love for each other. I know of this common tag line by boyfriends on their girlfriends “If you don’t want to

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• How To Talk to Your Wife So She will Listen

  Published: August 29, 2007, 4:57 am

  Tags: Relationship Advice, How To Take Care Of Wife, How To Take Care Of Husband

  but for the benefit of our relationship.” - “Would you rather keep this inside me and see things happen or share with you so that we can understand each other better?” - “I would rather say something that may anger you for the next few weeks than see our unresolved isssues erupt uncontrollably after 10 or 20 years. I

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• 3 Must-Know Reasons Why Wedding Gone Berserk!!!

  Published: September 3, 2007, 11:20 pm

  Tags: Relationship Advice, Wedding Planning Tips

  “Yes, I do!” replied the girlfriend after the boyfriend kneeled in the middle of a busy crowd and proposed to his future wife. (not bad for an Eiffel tower proposal too!) Yes, I do see that she is in for a roller coaster ride of wedding planning physically, mentally and emotionally. For those of you who are planning your wedding right

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• How Do I Reduce Our Newly Wed Conflicts?

  Published: September 7, 2007, 1:07 am

  Tags: Relationship Advice, How To Take Care Of Wife, How To Take Care Of Husband

  aspect. Yes, and also in our relationship which I will share more in the next post. Tags: Newlywed

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• Tony Robbins Saves A Marriage

  Published: September 16, 2007, 4:32 am

  Tags: Relationship Advice, Marriage Life

  this marks the end of a relationship and couples choose to go their separate ways. This pattern of conflict management is repeated in their next relationship and they cope in the same way, meaning they go their separate ways again. In fact, if couples have learnt a healthier way of managing their conflcts, many relationships could have been

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• Moving On Beyond Unsuccessful Wedding

  Published: September 17, 2007, 9:06 am

  Tags: Relationship Advice

  book also mentioned that relationship should be viewed as a partnership. It is journey of always supporting each other till the end of time. I am going to spend time with my wife now and so I would like to end off with this. As married couples, we should not focus on the flaws. Rather, we use our unique strengths to support and complement

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• What is the Secret to a Wedding Survival?

  Published: September 19, 2007, 9:53 pm

  Tags: Relationship Advice, Wedding Planning Tips, Wedding Preparation Tips

  Many of us thought that having a wedding is a great joy. Yes, it is. It is a bliss. And at the same time, many of us forget that it comes together as a package. You know it is like a big project and your fiance is your partner. Have you taken part in any project at all? Does everything go smoothly? Or sometimes you feel like strangling your

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• Have You Ever Stayed In Your Wife's Office Till 4am?

  Published: September 23, 2007, 11:12 am

  Tags: Relationship Advice, Marriage Life

  It was my breaking of record. Have you ever stayed in your wife’s office till 4am? I just did a few days ago. It was initially madness as it was my first time doing that. However, when I come to think about it, it was a good chance for me to observe for myself why she is so busy all the time. I think it was like those school days when you

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• Reasons and Causes for Divorce

  Published: September 24, 2007, 10:40 am

  Tags: Relationship Advice

  These happen in all relationships, be it for couples married for a long time or couples who are just engaged to each other or even couples who have just been together for a couple of weeks. When a relationship is formed, expectations on each other becomes higher and tolerance level reduces. A lot of times we have to learn to give way and

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